Hey all I'm new to this community. I have a major problem that maybe someone here can help me out with. To cut to the chase I really have a crush on this guy and he keeps giving me different signals and i dont know what to do. Sometimes he acts real nice and boyfriendlike but he tells me he wants nothing of it. I found out he had a really bad breakup a while back and hes frightened to death of girls. But i feel things could work out between us. I kow the feeling is mutual because he told me so, only he couldnt do anything aboout it. Is there a way around that? Is there anything I can do to try and help this boy and help him see that trusting me is a good idea? I am in a huge pickle here. Any Comments would help.