Hi, I am queer and in an LTR with the girl of my dreams. We recently met a person we both developed a crush on, and decided to try dating them. Neither of us have ever been poly before, but the idea makes sense to me. Now we've been dating them for a month, the sex is fantastic, I'm a little slower to warm up on the other aspects of the relationship. I think I may be more interested in opening the relationship in a way that involves more casual sex and less triad, but I'm not sure. What I'm looking for by posting this is one or two people who might be willing to talk with me about the ins and outs (not the literal ones...I'm on top of that. *wink!*) of my scenario. I have a lot of different feelings on a day-to-day basis and could use an anonymous friend to help me sort them out. My email address is my lj handle at yahoo.
Thanks y'all.