so its been a rough year for me, mostly good in a lot of ways, but i am going to be less online this summer. i’ll still be posting, just less regularly (as you may have noticed). asks have always been replied to slowly but it may get slower, and i doubt i’ll be checking my notifications daily to reply.
i see all of you and me and this community are here to support you for anything. dont take it personally, it’s just that my capacity has shifted.
Anonymous asked:
hi it is anon who was talking about the transition story posts before. completely forgot i subjected your askbox to that little crashout but i digress
for context i made that on a whim while feeling very dsyphoric for many reasons and was not really thinking through. the ask wasn't meant to be upset at binary folks at all to be clear, im very happy for all of them who get their visibility (although fascists are working day and night to take that from them). it was also not just about being nonbinary but also about intersections i have, like being nonbinary and black for example, something i don't see represented in real folks often-- in general i'd argue that whiteness is very prevalent in trans spaces, though that is not to erase the existence of other folks like me because obviously we exist, it can just be harder to find. i did neglect mentioning that but even if i did, point still stands-- we still exist even if we're not at the forefront all the time
but also i am happy to see the reblogs on that ask of fellow nonbinary people sharing their stories
thanks for the clarification! i understand vent posts, sometimes i just try and nip them in the bud when see something i disagree with. glad the notes gave you some hope :)
no one is obligated to tell you their socially imposed gender
no one is obligated to tell you their assigned gender/sex at birth
no one is obligated to tell you what kind of genitalia/reproductive anatomy they have
no one is obligated to tell you if testosterone or estrogen is more dominant in their body
no one is obligated to tell you if they menstruate or not
no one is obligated to tell you if they have breasts or a flat chest
for the fucking love of god STOP asking people, especially those under the nonbinary umbrella, these things just to know if they relate to your own experiences. that is sexual harassment
ALTthe 2026 satanic panic is actually people who think that there are secretly powerful transgender ideologues corrupting their child, who they are convinced can be fixed via straight sex or conversion therapy, and that the ideologues will be stopped by sending bomb threats to elementary school. there is a scary fascist world outside of pro vs anti discourse :/ also johnny depp beat his wife
“It’s just opinionated discourse whether or not I am responsible for my actions normalizing, mostly, incest and pedophilia! What possible wider cultural applications could this have?!!”
Y’all ain’t ready for outside Plato’s cave
genuinely what the hell are you talking about
begging fellow nonblack people to take antiblackness seriously. this includes digital blackface. why are all your memes and reaction images depicting Black people showing any sort of emotion. why do you find it acceptable to use AAVE as a "joke". remove your head from your ass and ponder that for a moment.
there is a very specific type of political enlightenment when you allow yourself to acknowledge bad people can be attractive and funny and intelligent and still be bad people because those things don’t quantify morality
“i’ve never met a pretty racist” “republican makeup” etc etc is all just enforcing the idea that being conventionally unattractive is a moral failing. stop doing that. it’s an actively dangerous idea to spread
Do the fanartists drawing male characters in feminine clothes know the characters don't have to look embarrassed. Do they know someone perceived as a man can just enjoy traditionally feminine things without having to feel ashamed of their actions or appearance. I'm not sure they know. I'm really not.
ALTthe 2026 satanic panic is actually people who think that there are secretly powerful transgender ideologues corrupting their child, who they are convinced can be fixed via straight sex or conversion therapy, and that the ideologues will be stopped by sending bomb threats to elementary school. there is a scary fascist world outside of pro vs anti discourse :/ also johnny depp beat his wife
