I really need to plug more kiddie time into my calendar. The intentions are there, but the days fly by and it's never in the plans. Once per week, I attempt some family outing, but I consider motherhood my full time job. Seriously, I spend eight hours at work, but the rest I'm with my boys. So, once per week doesn't cut it. Soon enough they won't want me to be all mushy with them. Now is my time to make the impact that will carry them over for the rest of their life. I know it's not to late. Yet.
I'm feeling the pangs of mommy guilt here. I'm not able to be as in depth with my son as I get busier at work. It really is true for me that when one area of your life greatly improves, others may fall by the wayside. My children are not negotiable for that kind of mother fail. I spend time with them, but that doesn't leave opportunity for as much educational activities as I would like. I'm considering a tutor, but then I know I would just feel absolutely useless. Any suggestions?
I have a two and three year old. Both are boys.
Something like where's waldo but for preschoolers. I didn't realize how much fun it would watch my boys eagerly try to find the hidden objects. My boys are 2 and 3 and this created a lot of fun for a low impact activity. I pull it out on the nights I'm physically and mentally exhausted.
I'm planning summer events for my boys. They're only two and three years old, but I still think they can get bored being couped inside all summer. It's so hot here, though, so I have to plan trips that indoors after noon.
Most local zoos offer at least six free days per year. We're going on the next one to see if Houston's zoo has enough to offer to purchase the zoo pass. San Antonio's Sea World is two and a half hours away, so that will be a weekend getaway
We have lots of Children's Museums and such available to balance out those scorching hot days when walking around just won't cut it.
Home Depot offers a children's workshop on the first Saturday of every month from 9a.m. to 12p.m. This should be true of every Home Depot. Pretty cool, because all materials and even a free kiddie orange HD apron are free.
What are you planning this summer?

I have two days off back to back this week. It's not really a new thing, but I quit doing that to myself. It's torture I would do everything the first day and the second day would just disappear. The alternative is do nothing both days. So for the past few weeks up until today, I took one random day off. I procrastinated so much less. I did things before and after work instead of saving added chores for my off day. It really worked well. I thought I was a big girl again able to handle two days off in a row. Today, I took the boys to the bookstore and various errands. We were together. That's all that matters. We got home after 5pm, so I spent the same amount of play together time I would have spent had I worked this day. We spent it together so this is what really matters. I didn't even realize how much they enjoyed it until I heard the wee one repeating things he heard me and brother say. We all rolled over in laughter. Another mother-sons bonding day.
How do you fit bonding in on your off days and when you get off of work? How much time do you set aside for play each day?
The hardest part of everyday is when I leave my sweeties each morning. What do you do to make morning bye byes easier?