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[personal profile] merryish
Sometimes in my email box I get a notice that someone has friended me on Facebook, or that someone wants me to... do something? join something? see something? something with farm animals? I don't even know? on Facebook.

I have no idea what to do about any of that, just so you know! And I have very little interest in learning. Facebook irritates the hell out of me. The interface is bizarre. The like/don't like thing seems facile and pointless to me. I only use it to stay in touch with people from places I used to work. I tried for a while to use it regularly but I fail, fail, fail. I just dun liek it.

So if you add me on Facebook, I will probably eventually get around to adding you back, but then I will just sit there like a lump. I don't read it, don't say anything in it, don't do anything with it.

I'm sorry! I have no idea how fandom found me there, and I don't mind that it did; it just makes me feel like my friends there have Expectations of Interactivity with me on Facebook that will never be fulfilled. And I have guilt about that. So I thought I should warn you that there will be none.

Two journals, email, ichat and irc are as much interactivity as my brain can handle, I guess.

Date: 2010-06-12 05:15 pm (UTC)
klia: (scream)
From: [personal profile] klia
To me, FB TMI in a weirdly shallow venue that totally hits my creepitude button. And my feeling is that the like/don't like stuff is mainly for them to better target advertising, but I'm cynical that way. I'm never going to join. Ever. *makes warding sign*

Date: 2010-06-12 07:32 pm (UTC)
pixel: (Default)
From: [personal profile] pixel
+1

And then they started messing around with the privacy stuff, that was it for me.

Date: 2010-06-12 07:53 pm (UTC)
klia: (scream)
From: [personal profile] klia
Yeah, and they keep messing with people's privacy, and never learn, and NEVER will, because they don't care about anything but the almighty advertising dollar.

Date: 2010-06-12 05:42 pm (UTC)
bethbethbeth: Flower with Rainbow Petals (Misc Rainbow Flower (bbb))
From: [personal profile] bethbethbeth
I'm the same...I have a FB account (which I actually love because it pushed all those google hits that have my real name in a fannish context from the 90's back to the tenth page *g*), but after I add people, that's it. My relatives and my students found me first, and then my fandom friends (all of us pretending we know each other in non-fannish contexts), but I'm the worst FB'er. I think I posted once.

Oh, and the farm thing is...Farmville? It's some vaguely interactive game like...SIMS? WoW? Something. You grow vegetables. I think if you give somebody fruit and they offer you a bag of fertilizer you get more points or something? IDK. :)

Date: 2010-06-12 06:29 pm (UTC)
cereta: Sally Lane, smoking pot (reefer)
From: [personal profile] cereta
No worries at all. I use FB for work, family (it's good for sharing kidpics with relatives we will never see), and my D&D group.

Date: 2010-06-12 06:42 pm (UTC)
sanj: A woman sitting in space, in a lotus leaf (Default)
From: [personal profile] sanj
Yeah, I'm on FB, but it's almost purely to talk to my family -- for which it's darn useful, since it's hard to get into an argument there.

I also catch up with some old school/work buddies, which is nice. But my real virtual interaction (heh) is still on LJ/DW.

Date: 2010-06-12 09:12 pm (UTC)
toliver: (Default)
From: [personal profile] toliver
FB is for me and family and friends, including people at work. That's where I oooh and ahhh over pictures of people's children and pets, commiserate over headaches and Mondays and try to whomp people at Bejeweled Blitz (although that never happens).

Date: 2010-06-12 10:37 pm (UTC)
beck_liz: Bamboo Yellow Flowers (Default)
From: [personal profile] beck_liz
The only reason I ever joined Facebook was that I was up way too late one night and had nothing better to do, so I thought why not. *snort* I posted once to say that I probably wouldn't post much. And then over the next year or so I watched a whole bunch of people I knew in high school who I mostly haven't seen since add me. I finally ditched FB because of the privacy stuff and because I have no expectation that I will ever use it, and the emails were getting annoying. Livejournal, Dreamwidth and Twitter are about all I can handle. :-)

Date: 2010-06-13 02:10 am (UTC)
tingler: (John Smirk)
From: [personal profile] tingler
it just makes me feel like my friends there have Expectations of Interactivity with me on Facebook

I would never! I have no Facebook expectations. No worries! I am mostly on FB to keep an eye on the people that are on FB.

Date: 2010-06-13 07:27 am (UTC)
bientot: flapping crane (Default)
From: [personal profile] bientot
I joined FB because I was trying to look up an old friend and that's the link Google gave me. Since then I've found it interesting in that people have found me there, but I check in rarely since Chrome started opening FB as a blank page. Still...it's fun to look at every now and again. Misha Collins just opened a FB page...

Date: 2010-06-13 11:06 pm (UTC)
sakana17: two house cats (Default)
From: [personal profile] sakana17
I think FB found you for me via mutual friends, but I don't ever initiate a friending over there, because I agree 100% with you about it. I pretty much hate FB, except it got me back in touch with 2 non-fannish folks I wanted to get back in touch with. Other than that? Useless. I do nothing with it, and feel no guilt! Whatever need it fulfills for so many other people... I do not have that need.

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