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Lacey

@menheramellow

Radfems are not welcome here okay? Please fuck off
18

3 girls in a coord trying to not die

Lacey | she/it | transgender girl

Part of a system, and a subsystem, the whole system supports endogenic systems

Menhera I think?

18 years old

Our body is disabled, diagnosed with “only” hypermobility and epilepsy and POTS but something else ain’t right

The subsystem members include me, Homura, and Eternal Sugar Cookie)

This blog will contain talk of my experiences with mental illness, particularly old posts may have deeply unhealthy behaviours.

I love asks and DMs please talk to me

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My text post tag is #weaving a new lace

My ask answering tag is #thank you for the ask~

My talking to mutuals tag is #mooties!

There is a special tag for me to look through when I’m sad called #Lacey’s faves

we are NOT bringing 4chan incel terminology to this site, take that "foid" out of your post and go wash your blog out with soap

the memeification of fascism is a proven method of perpetuating and instilling it in other people. Layers of irony will not protect you once you adopt racist, sexist, ableist, transphobic terminology into your lexicon. you'll be acknowledging and nursing the mindsets and connotations borne of those words.

oh yea like chud, specifically in its contemporary resurgence, was pretty exclusively used to mock reactionaries and alt-right types till they grabbed onto it and spun it around to be some kind of cute little self-effacing insult a la "fuck my stupid chud life" or whatever until it diluted to the point that it has no connotation beyond "loser" and you see it shoved into cute little vtubers' stream titles and random youtube video thumbnails.

i think the more damning element to it is the fact that it's so commonly used as a self-directed insult, causing people to identify themselves as "chuds" and thus producing some thread of commonality with the aforementioned reactionaries. this thread then generates a pull towards more reactionism especially when its only one of multiple words and phrases being covertly blunted and spread around.

more efficient to ease someone into your extreme worldviews when theyre already using all the appropriate vernacular.

“chocolate guy” is currently shilling for harry potter so i better not see yall post his shit anymore. anyone who engages with that shit especially for money is scorched earth as far as i’m concerned.

Came right up when I searched it, unfortunately

Tool Tip: Telling everyone that you “always hated [Asshole] the whole time” or you “knew he was bad news” after that person is discovered to be [Asshole] makes the people in your vicinity annoyed. Making fun of [Asshole]’s appearance makes people in your vicinity think you are stupid.

meowth team rocket will go episodes forgetting he himself is a pokemon and his main hobby will be breaking the law, attempting to ruin a childs life, and generally being an asshole and thats cool but then hell curl up on a table to go to sleep and im like OHHH... HES A KITTY.. hes just a little cat. a little kitty cat meow meow meow. mrow

insanely cat moment

lemme just, put these here...

showing these pics to eachother like pokemon cards

Since the wattpad migrators are being annoying and Kinktober is only a bit away, I propose the implementation of Simptember as a bracing action before the full force of Kinktober

"I'm so lazy for lying down so often" "I'm so greedy for eating such a big meal" MY BEAUTIFUL FRIEND!!!! YOUUUU ARE A GIANT OMNIVORE. YOU'RE MEGAFAUNA. DO YOU KNOWWW HOW ENERGY EXPENSIVE IT IS TO KEEP A GIANT OMNIVORE WITH A HUGE BRAIN RUNNING. very!!! very energy expensive!!! eat that burger take that nap. holy moly. you wonderful animal. your species is made for frequent meals and daytime rests and long sleeps. let yourself be a human.

Pronoun roles on discord servers aren't a bad idea, but there is the fun implication that you can ping an entire pronoun set.

Hey I got a problem with something, this is an all they/thems on deck situation

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I've encountered many people with schizospectrum symptoms (including myself) who say therapy doesn't work for them, and usually after talking it becomes clear they lie to their therapist, make up problems to talk about, or go along with whatever their therapist's assesment of them is and suppress anything that doesn't fit. This is actually a problem common enough that it shows up in schizospectrum therapy research. It's worth stating explicitly you should be able to tell your therapist whatever youre feeling, even if that is

1. I feel nothing and have nothing to talk about

2. I hate you/think you're evil/think you're plotting again me

3. I think you hate me/think I'm evil/think I'm doing something bad

4. I think this isn't working and the things you tell me don't help me

5. Your analysis of what I'm going through is wrong

6. You're making me feel angry/sad/useless/stupid

7. I feel like you're secretly trying to communicate [x] to me because you said [y]

8. I've just been trying to guess what you want me to say and saying it

9. I'm suffering because of things I can only describe as otherworldly or spiritual or not of this world

Getting a trustworthy therapist can be difficult, and a bad therapist might react in a way that makes you feel like you can't do these things when you do say them. I always look for leftist therapists who will advocate for my rights as a patient and who are critical of police and institutionalization, and this advice is most relevant to people who are entering therapy consensually rather than under coercive, dangerous circumstances. A good therapist will want you to say these things and won't be upset or reject you, they'll just try to help with the issue.

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curling up on your lap in a really inconvenient way but you arent allowed to move me or get upset at me

They should invent a cry for help that has zero negative effects on anybody and also that makes everyone treat you like a little animal in a cardboard box. But everyone’s cool with it because you’re a cute little animal and not an adult human that needs to get their shit together to stay alive

This tag literally wins, I literally DO want to be a chiikawas. Honorable mentions to everyone tagging this as petplay though

I got curious and looked into the ‘you can only have sex one day of the year’ movie more and holy shit

for those not as invested in this shit as I am, the movie ends with the protagonists not having sex and deciding people who like having sex are shallow and weird. Yknow. Agreeing with the facist government banning them from having sex.

If you think about it for more than a second, yes it is.

paving the way for enthusiastic folks building faraday cages to fuck in, because always use protection, including from 5G

Concept: a mermaid who collects human artifacts, but, like, exclusively objects that humans have dramatically cast into the sea in moments of high emotion, catharsis, or personal revelation. Each item is carefully mounted above a little index card that outlines the circumstances of its hurling in terse, clinical prose.

How many outdated cellphones does she have from businessmen who realize that Family is more important?

Fewer than you’d think. For a variety of fascinating demographic and cultural reasons, importance-of-family cell phones are considerably more likely to be hurled into lakes than oceans. She’s co-authored a paper on the subject that’s due to be published next month.

I hope it’s been pier reviewed