Hi, I’m Liz Harrington.
You’re smart, so you probably want my resume…what makes me qualified to lead you in this work?
I’ll give you my stats, but more importantly - I’ve been there.
On the outside, I had it all figured out. An Ivy League Graduate, making 6 figures before I was 25. Living in a cool apartment in Brooklyn with a solid group of friends. Life seemed good.
Yet when it came to my relationships, things were in shambles. By the time I was 31, I’d been single for nearly a decade.
So naturally, I became obsessed with understanding attraction, men, and how relationships actually formed.
I studied attachment theory, feminine energy, psychology, non-violent communication - anything I could get my hands on.
But something still wasn’t adding up.
Because I felt a lot more confident, a lot less anxious - yet I was still single.
Until I accidentally stumbled across a truth: Your dating reality isn’t dictated by learning the big theories. Or even your looks.
It’s dictated by the hundreds of tiny micro-relational patterns that almost no one notices.
In 2023, I met my now partner walking my dog down the street of all places! We now live in Denver together, and I’ve never felt more nourished or seen in a relationship.
A year later, I quit my Corporate job to guide women in their love lives full time. I’ve led hundreds of women, and I’ve supported the most intelligent, sensitive women in finding love.
And yes, I’m an Ivy League Grad (go Big Red!), former Sales Leader for a Fortune 500 company, certified Hypnotherapist and Integrative Attachment Relationship coach.
Ok, are you in!?
My Approach
I believe most dating problems aren’t rooted in big mistakes - but in tiny relational patterns that often go completely unseen.
Because connection and attraction don’t disappear because you texted him back too quickly or still get anxious when you don’t hear from him.
They disappear because you asked him a million questions and didn’t allow for a single pause…which didn’t give him any space to be curious or move towards you. You leave the date feeling unseen and he leaves the date only knowing more about himself.
You see the difference?
Right now, the dating industry falls into one of two camps . One teaches rules and performance. And the other teaches healing your trauma and attachment style.
But if the answer was simply "lean back and let him lead" or "heal your Anxious Attachment," you wouldn’t be here, right?
Here’s the truth: attraction and connection grow or plateaus in moments.
And it’s why two conversations that look almost identical can create completely different outcomes.
My approach lives in a third domain - I focus on the micro-relational patterns that compound overtime and directly influence interest, pursuit, and investment. And determine whether an interaction feels flat, memorable, effortless, or magnetic.
And the good news is that these patterns are much easier to shift - and in my opinion, a lot more fun too ;)