a little bit closer

This journal is mainly used to join communities. I've tried several times to actually put entries on it but it never seem to work.

Moved in mostly. All but bits and pieces and the stuff I'm planning to sell. It's been 3 weeks and everything has been great. Well the cats are still hissing when they get to close...I'll be honest it's when Pepper jumps out at Midge mostly. We're hoping they'll get over it soon.

Well, I am now planning a move to the city to the North where the residents glow in the dark! Yep, you heard me. I'm shacking up with my boyfriend! Okay so we've spent the last several months spending every free moment with each other but we're going to make it official and move in together.

Pepper and I are gonna spend the next little bit packing up the house and then figuring out how to fit my stuff and his stuff into a 2 bedroom apartment. Not to mention Pepper will have to get used to his cat Midge. That should be interesting.

So thanks to a crazy friend of Brian's, the two of us spent this Saturday jokingly planning our wedding/elopement. No I still don't have a ring, and no he hasn't asked, but like I said crazy friend.

It was weird, it sound like when we do finally do it, it will be either in the month of September or May as they are not too hot, not too cold, and not already having a holiday or family birthday to worry about.

I thought the whole point of wanting to elope was not planning it. And yes when we get married we are planning to elope. Neither of us want to make a big production or it and we can have a reception later.

Well as of this coming Friday, May 7th, it will be 6 months for me and Brian. We're incredibly happy and have future plans. :)

No I don't have a ring on my finger or anything like that, but we do talk about our future with kids and forever... We spend every weekend together now and some nights in-between. There has been talk about moving in to his place together, but my parents would kill me considering we're not married yet. *sigh*

My parents do love him though. And his parents love me. So that's all great. I know he's the forever I've been looking for I just have to be a little patient with him for the rest of it.

Okay so last update was about my first date with Brian and everything has been going awesome with him! We've basically been spending at least half of our free time together. I'm pretty much spending most every weekend in Oak Ridge with him and Midge his cat.

It was the first time in years that I actually had a Valentine and even though I still say I really don't like the commercialized holiday I did have a pretty good day. He made us dinner and we just basically curled up on the couch and watched movies. He bought me a t-shirt, which I know doesn't sound like a great V-day gift, but it was perfect! It was something that showed how much he actually understood me.

We've been talking for 3 1/2 months and technically dating for 2 1/2 months but I'm totally in love with this guy. Because we talked and everything for a month before going out we got to know each other pretty well. I'm too freaked out to tell him, but I am.

Okay so I keep saying I'm gonna start using my journal and I never seem to, and mainly it's because nothing happens in my life that anyone would want to know about...until now. :)

I had a date last night! This is big new for me it's the first date I've had in a least 3 years and I was really worried about how it would go. It was so awesome! We met up at the resturant at 6:30 and were still sitting there talking 3 hours later. The last relationship I had was back in highschool and it was someone that I'd know for a while. Brian, I've just met, but we have so much in common and everything went so great last night that we actually have a date for next weekend to go see a movie!!! I really want this to work and I really think it could.

 So here I am another day on sitting at my parents house waiting for the cable guy. This only makes...the fourth time in a week.  I swear if we actually had another cable company in this town they would have changed by now. Every time we try to make any kind of change to their account it turns into a week (or several) long drama. At this point I wish I'd never mentioned that they should add DVR, as much as I love mine. They supposedly had it installed Thursday and haven't been able to use it yet because the box never worked. 

Not to mention the fact that everytime we talk to someone there they tell us something different. At this point I'm gonna call and speak to a manager about that. I've been the one dealing with it because my parents work days and I work nights. I feel like I have the right to complain about the service because I work in Customer Care. Let me tell you if everyone in my office gave a different answer, we'd all get in big trouble. 

I'm hoping that tomorrow I'll get something posted that I'm working on, with some prompting I might actually be able to finish something. It's been awhile since I've done that.

So I've decided to start my journal from scratch. Not that I was really doing much with it anyway. It's really just a way to comment and keep track of a couple of comms but I've decided I'm gonna try to start to use it. I'm writing so many things I figure I'll start posting and see if I can get some feedback and keep writing.