oh my god someone actually take this away from me

Joachim Trier understands something i struggle to put into words. familial trauma is generational. it’s a cycle people can easily become trapped in, where grief quietly passes from one generation to the next until it becomes inseparable from the way a family functions. in sentimental value, grief feels architectural. it’s shown through the house as past arguments linger in the walls and rooms remember conversations long after the people themselves…