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Please don’t change your posts from friends only; these will be reserved for public announcements only.
If you're trying to join the community please make sure to follow all the correct steps:
- Join the community in the normal manner - it will tell you that membership is moderated and will put you into a queue for me to approve.
- If your journal is friends only please friend my personal journal.
- Make a comment on this entry (your comment will be screened for your privacy) letting me know why you would like to join, how you found the community and if you have friended my journal, otherwise I will just assume you've friended my journal to be friends with me!
- If your journal is less than 3 months old, has very few posts, and little to no friends, you may be rejected membership.
- If you are using a secondary journal to protect your private journal please include the name of your private journal and your second journal in your comment.
- Your privacy will be 100% protected as all of those comments stay screened, and only you and I have access to them.
- If you are using a secondary journal to protect your private journal please include the name of your private journal and your second journal in your comment.
Once you have done all of the above, I will check your journal and userinfo to make sure you are a genuine person, and approve your membership.
If you don't follow all of the steps your membership may be rejected.
For example, a lot of people make a comment to request membership but don't actually join the community. I cannot send out invitation to everyone who wants to join, you must do both so that I can approve your membership.
Due to requests the community is now open to users identifying as female only.
I will periodically remove all journals that have been deleted. If you have reopened your journal and would like to be be added back, please let me know.
Some people will probably be put off by the rules and regulations, however I believe that those who genuinely will use this place to its full potential will have no problem getting through.
If you’re embarrassed about asking a question in the community please use this public post as a way to ask your question anonymously and I will post it to the community on your behalf.
You will still need to join the community to follow the responses to your post.
Most of all, I hope you all feel comfortable enough to share your experiences with the rest of us, and have a good time with the community :o)