the amount of hate anons and messages trans women and transfems could get simply for not wanting to take a part in pushing down trans men and transmascs is so disgusting. bc those people (tma/tme users and transandrophobia deniers) would claim to put trans women and transfems above everyone else but turn around and harass them the second they dont agree with their posts. its pathetic. shout out to every trans woman and transfem who is supportive of all trans siblings!!!
wish there was an easy and normal way to say “I’m not as sane as you probably assume i am, and when you can see it, will you still try to love me?”
just in case this spreads: i literally mean “not sane” here. I’m not joking about how goofy i am. I mean i have behaviors and symptoms and histories that most people don’t- and ones that have been considered insane. Will you still love me when i tell you I hear things sometimes? Will you still love me when you know I’ve attempted suicide multiple times? Will you still love me when I obsess over things and break down often and can’t promise you i can always be happy?
Please, for me
Boobs Wario is intersex!
afab does not mean "raised female." afab does not mean ""socialized" female." afab does not mean "has a uterus." afab does not mean "has/was born with a vagina." afab does not mean "had a feminizing puberty."
afab does not mean anything except "when they looked at you during birth, an F was put down"
amab does not mean "raised male." amab does not mean ""socialized" male." amab does not mean "has testes." amab does not mean "has/was born with a penis." amab does not mean "had a masculinizing puberty."
amab does not mean anything except "when they looked at you during birth, an M was put down"
12 years old: i was so cringe when i was nine, i'm super mature now though
15 years old: i was so cringe when i was twelve, i'm super mature now though. i'm a totally different person. i'm basically an adult
18 years old: i was so. (trying to be nicer to myself) fifteen. when i was fifteen. i wasn't an adult even a little back then. i'm an adult now though of course
21 years old: i was so newborn fawn taking its first steps when i was 18. i wasn't an adult at 18 i'm barely even an adult now tbh
23 years old: i was so. hey wait the others have all gone up in increments of three why'd it change
23 years old: because i'm still 23 so i can't speak to that experience yet
23 years old: do you think anything will magically change in the next few months to the point where you can't possibly imagine how you'll feel at 24
23 years old: i mean you never know. anything can happen. they're letting people born in 2002 turn 24, for instance
the mold spores in my house speaking to me telepathically: yeah that's perfect now hit post
the concept of vocaloid fans being so insanely racist towards one of the most exciting up and coming underground rappers that the very talented producer behind fujo miku and mikumiku beam revealed that he’s black
anyways, go stream Slayr and Sawtowne
I love you autistic dissociative trans men who grew up being treated as fundamentally Not Right on all fronts, to the point you sometimes secretly weren't sure you're even from this planet. I love you. You do belong here, and it is possible to build a life that is bigger than just the profound discomfort and numbness you oscillate between.
Sorry no I don't give a single fuck who you've decided "deserves" it I don't care how shitty any individual trans woman or group of trans women has behaved if you're calling anyone an "AMAB" or using terms like "transfeminazi" I'm blocking your well poisoning ass, your notes are worthless here fucknuts
All of you need to stop using the word "paraphile" when you mean pedophiles. The definition of the word paraphilia is "an intense and persistent sexual interest, urge, or behavior that is considered atypical compared to established social or cultural norms."
That means wireplay, wingplay, objectum, feet, CNC, etc are ALL PARAPHILIAS. Paraphilia is an extremely big umbrella term and using it to describe one group of people only does immense amounts of harm to the 99% of people who's paraphilias are entirely unharmful.
you can only reblog this if you're not racist
huge coming from the site who is so against black art that 'tumblr users are afraid of rap' has been a meme for the best part of a decade. You know that yall are 4channers with pronouns right?
addendum: you can only reblog this if you're not racist part 2
While we are at it I need nonblack people to stop saying “YN” and “🥷🏾” just to get around saying antiblack racial slurs. Yes that includes that stupid shit where white people go “ooh but I said nega not-“ I don’t give a shit. You know damn well what you meant. Fuck off. It’s a insta block from me for anyone who does this shit and think it’s funny or whatever don’t pmo.
And before someone fucking says “erm are you referring to the fanfic / shipping term? How is your name offen-“ obviously no I’m not referring to that and anyone who is using it to mean “your name” types it with a slash -> (y/n) *NOT* “yn”. Like. I need nonblacks to stop randomly regurgitating aave they see or hear without knowing what it fucking means and misusing it to hell and back thinking it’s cool/ trendy/ or something worthy of mockery. It means young nigga. Stop fucking using it if you’re not black lol
People wanna pretend it was all in good fun and only got racist afterwards (if they'll even acknowledge it ever was racist) meanwhile some of the earliest TikTok making clanker jokes were skits that were just "racist dad hates his daughter's black boyfriend" only the boyfriend is a robot instead, and before that, these exact same kinds of jokes were circulating the Star Wars fandom for over a decade
They want all the "fun" of being blatantly racist and provocative, but don't want any of the reactions you'd get from someone watching you being blatantly racist
The double bind of "stop misgendering yourself by claiming you're oppressed the way Women are" when they demand we misgender and/or degender ourselves to talk about our experiences because "(real) Men don't have those experiences (for being men)" should be treated like the blatant and deliberate transphobia that it is more often
seeing young trans men saying how they feel so “validated” by people telling them to kill themselves because “at least they see me as a man” is actually so fucking sad. 15 year old trans boy you do not deserve to be treated like a monster because of the words you use for yourself and the goals you have for your body. you do not need to accept this kind of treatment from your own community in order to prove that you’re not a threat. you are a person. you are a person
Yall deserve love and care; men need community too <3
I think the situation where trans men are now banned from all public bathrooms in the UK is a perfect summation of transandrophobia.
It happened in broad daylight. It was telegraphed ahead of time; TERFs were very clear they wanted trans men removed from public life entirely. Yet during the entire lead-up, and even since then, people have erased transmascs completely from the conversation, saying they weren't in danger like transfemmes are, and in fact alleging that transmascs enjoyed a measure of protection from TERFs, who allegedly just see them as confused little girls they want to protect.
And while people were busy being useful idiots and spreading TERF propaganda for them, while people were busy actively denying the threat to transmascs, TERFs made it so transmascs can be excluded from any public bathroom in the UK.
That's transandrophobia in a nutshell. Trans men don't die in the spotlight, they die in the shadows, and are told they're privileged for their quiet, out-of-sight deaths.
It is truly bizarre how there's a really big group of people who call themselves feminists that have utterly convinced themselves that people seen as "confused girls who need their autononomy taken away" are like, treated too nicely. Like the problem with people seen as women with reduced capability is that they're treated with an overbearing amount of care and it's a little condescending. Isn't that a completely batshit insane thing to think, as a self-proclaimed feminist?
