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i don't remember how to subject (but i surely remember how to icon)

1. I'm off until after the new year and while I'm not burned out I definitely need this because Feb-May is...going to be intense from a work perspective

2. 2018 was awful so I'm declaring 2019 the Year of Idyll and Idyll's!Husband

3. Speaking of #2, I have an app in for a job that would literally double my salary; it closes tonight so send good vibes my way

4. I have a short story that I'm going to shop around in the Spring, and I've put out feelers to people about who has connections to publishers or who has good information on how to shop things around; if you can help me out feel free to comment or message me

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well damn

it's been a lot longer than i realized since i've been 'round this way!

husband finally moved out here in August with two of our critters. we had to rehome two others, unfortunately, because we could not find a rental that would take four animals. as it is, finding a place that would take a 50lb sheppard/rottie mix was...difficult.

i flew back to pittsburgh and drove back across country with husband and critters and it sucked. we couldn't leave the critters alone so we pushed it and did the drive in 3.5 days. it was really kind of miserable but we didn't die during it (a fear i had going into the process) so yay.

i spent all of 2015 in a department where i had no leadership (AKA Boss) and was basically the last manager standing after a series of unfortunate reorgs, and my workload was out of control and required a lot of 65 hour weeks. but i acquitted myself well and lots of kudos came my way. like, no joke, TWO people in my college (NOT EVEN in my dept) went to my exec vp for the express purpose of singing my praises. and high level folks at a government funder legit put an item on the agenda of a recent site visit to talk about me being amazing. !!!

because of all of this, the vague talk of a promotional opportunity is pretty much a guarantee, backed by my upper leadership, and omg that would mean a $17K increase woohoo.

right before holiday break, we hired staff to fill all but one open position. not gonna lie, i'm glad to have a boss again, and a manager to take on a major project i didn't have capacity for. i mean i'm still supporting a project we need to hire for but work is like 80% better.

i've met with port commissioners and gone to meetings with mayors, been invited to a convening by a major metro transit org, and testified before a state senate committee. i feel accomplished in my career path, and like an actual ADULT.

husband is still looking for work so things aren't entirely ideal but even with only one of us working we're still better off financially than we were in pittsburgh.

in 2015 i traveled for work to...san francisco, dallas, portland, baltimore, and san diego (x2),

i also went to ft lauderdale 3 times. i hate ft lauderdale, fyi. the last trip (a few weeks ago) coincided with my 40th birthday and it was actually the only BAD trip i've had since i started this job. 15 hours of sleep in 5 days, missed flights, painful meetings, terrible hotel, and the loss of my tablet on a plane. FYI, American Airlines' lost and found SUCKS ASS. i'm never seeing that tablet again, ugh.

in the last year my previous employer, which was...hrm. i had problems with the org and the leadership, let's just leave it at that. anyway, they've upheld their tradition of being terrible and complete assholes by firing people for no cause. so glad to be away. i mean, my job is 1000% harder and more stressful, but i'll take this over racist, classist and hypocritical bullshit any day.

i started classes again to keep on working towards my degree. signed up for 4 this semester (completely on line) and last night had the sad realization that 4 is too many for me to manage. will probably be dropping 1. still! keeping on the path to completion though!

 to sum up...husband and critters are here, work is going excellently, and life is good!
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seems like it's time for my semi-regular lj pop in!

it's been 10 months since i moved and things in cali continue to be great, especially now that i've adjusted to my new workload and have imposed limitations on myself that i've effectively expressed to, and had accepted by, upper management (who is my temp direct manager because we're down a director).

i had a really rough patch for a month where i just...was a mental/emotional mess and super lonely and just exhausted constantly. but those limitations helped, and visiting my family a few times helped. i also battled some breathing issues for a week but several breathing treatments, two inhalers, a nose spray, an allergy med, and steroids helped--apparently March thru May is a DEATHLY ALLERGY SEASON FOR ME HERE ugh.

i've been writing and knitting listening to music on infinite replay while i sleep.

i've also been missing husband BUT i will get to see him next week because i have a work trip (a conference, at which i'm presenting) out to Baltimore and he's going to drive out for a few days yay!

so, yeah, happy greatness for the most part, though i turn into a hot mess when i live on my own, i can't even. i'm a terrible adult when by myself ugh.
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14 Valentines

Originally posted by idyll at post

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There’s about 2.5 weeks left until the start of the 2013 cycle of 14
Valentines! Since we’re so close to starting, there are a few
housekeeping details I wanted to go over.


Comm Essays


If you’ve signed up to provide an official comm essay, please note
that they’re due to me by January 15! (If you need an extension, no
worries, just let me know via email). If you’re interested in writing an official comm essay, there are still a bunch up for grabs over here.


Blog Contributions (Non Fanworks)


One of the goals of 14 Valentines is to share information and
resources on women’s issues. The comm essays mentioned above are the
lead ins for the daily topics. 14 Valentines has always generated
topical content outside of the official comm posts, as well, though.


For those who want their topical content included in the comm
activity, you simply need to link us to your content on the daily comm post. If your content is on Tumblr, you can skip the linking step simply by tagging your relevent post with 14Valentines. I
track the tag and will include—either through reblogs or link round
up—all 14 Valentines non-fanworks content.


Fanwork Contributions


A major aspect of 14 Valentines has always been fanwork creation to
promote the community and generate interest. Last year, we changed comm
requirements so that all contributions, including fanworks, be
female-centric in some manner. We’ve had some really amazing creators
contribute some wonderful fanworks over the years, and we hope that will
continue.


To better facilitate linking and archiving fanworks contributions,
I’ve created a collection on AO3 for 14 Valentines. This includes a
general 14 Valentines parent collection, and a specific subcollection for the 2013 cycle.


Fanworks posted to the 14 Valentines 2013 cycle subcollection will be
linked to on daily round up posts. This content can include anything
you wish to create that falls within the posting guidelines of AO3.


Fanwork creators who don’t have an AO3 account, or don’t wish to post
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Other Contributions


If you have a contribution to make that falls outside of essays or
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2013 Daily Essay Claims Post

Originally posted by idyll at 2013 Daily Essay Claims Post

Below is the listing of daily 14 Valentines topics for 2013.


To sign up to write an essay for a particular day, please do the following please comment to this post and indicate which day you'd like to claim. I will reply to confirm your claim, and ask you to provide me with your email address. You can provide it to me in a comment, via a message, or email it to me at tonguesandtales@gmail.com

Day 1 – Women and Body Image

Day 2 – Women's Physical and Mental Health
Day 3 – Women and Reproductive Rights and Motherhood
Day 4 – Women and Sexual Assault
Day 5 – Women and Domestic/Partner Violence
Day 6 – Women and Political Action
Day 7 – Women and Athletics
Day 8 – Women and Work/Employment
Day 9 – Women of Color
Day 10 – Women and Economics/Poverty
Day 11 – Women and Media
Day 12 – GLBTQ Women
Day 13 – Women and War/Peace
Day 14 – Women and Education

There are a few things to keep in mind when it comes to writing community essays for daily topics.
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Teen Wolf Recs

I know a bunch of you are getting into/have gotten into Teen Wolf, but aren't on Tumblr (or don't follow me on Tumblr, whatevs), but here are some fic recs I've posted there:

Recs Part 1

Recs Part 2

Also, not mentioned there (because they're super popular and most people in the fandom have read them) but amazing are To Have Outlived the Night by Stillane, and Open the Door by Renay, both on AO3.

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