Let's try our best, yeah?

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
bumbleberrybee
eucalyptus-sage

being known is being loved

"i know your pizza order" "you have freckles on your ears" "you make this face when you're tired" "you order green tea on a good day black on a bad day" "you always make that face before you try something" "the tips of your ears turn red when you're angry" "i knew you'd say something" "you must be exhausted to miss the class" "your favorite pie is pumpkin, right?" "i know your phone number, don't worry" "you miss me, i can tell" "you fiddle with your pens when you're bored" "you don't like converse unless they're high tops" "your favorite cereal is cinnamon toast crunch and you first ate it when you were 8"

being known is being loved.

solitics

in order to reap the rewards of being loved we must succumb to the mortifying ordeal of being known

xekstrin
closet-keys

I love the post-apocalyptic genre as much as the next horror fan, but there is something to be unpacked in how they often reinforce very reactionary political ideas. Not just in the more bluntly conservative ways of thematically rewarding ideas like

  • “shoot first ask questions never”
  • “never offer mercy”
  • “torture works”
  • “Strong Government may be doing Bad Things but it is the only thing stopping people from becoming roaming bands of cannibal rapists unless Strong Men with police or military training maintain order once society collapses”

But also in the less easily recognizable reactionary beliefs like

  • “power vacuums are real and inevitable” (implying that unless you plan to exert a similar level of power and take the top of the hierarchy then you should not seek to dismantle power)
  • “the people who survive are the best— the strongest and smartest and most resourceful, the ones who deserve it most.” (implying that eugenics is an inevitable biological force rather than a political ideology)
  • “If someone who deserves to live dies, it is due to the actions of a villain, ‘good’ ‘important’ people do not just die from sickness or hunger or chance or mundane accidents” (more eugenics tbh, or at very least a just world ideology & confusing storytelling conventions with how the world works)

I think this becomes an issue when people—who have not studied, for example, the way that communities engage in mutual aid during natural disasters even if disconnected beforehand—will assume that collapse will inevitably lead to evil cannibal hoards as the biggest threat to survival and therefore the most important thing to prepare for, instead of understanding that collapse is much more likely to lead to an absolute need for community interdependence and cooperation to survive in the face of environmental disaster. I think it’s an issue if you can’t picture disabled people during collapse because you watched a hundred depictions of post apocalyptic shows where disabled people are eerily absent or die immediately, instead of internalizing the much more likely reality that if you survive disaster even if you were able-bodied previously, you and everyone you know will likely be surviving as disabled people.

like the media is fun as a form of storytelling, but if you are approaching your imagination of the future with increasing climate crisis with images you got from zombie shows, you do need to take a break from the fiction and learn from communities that have actually experienced natural disasters in real life.

cletusthurstonbeauregard

you'll like this:

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closet-keys

[ID: an advance reading copy cover of the book The Lightest Object in the Universe by Kimi Eisele.]

wow, I checked some reviews & I can see why you recommended it!

screenshot of a review that reads:   "For its first third, I found The Lightest Object in the Universe to be deeply frustrating. Here I am reading a novel about the end of the world - flu has wiped out a huge chunk of humanity, the government just sort-of decided to stop working, commerce has collapsed, and the electrical grid has stopped reducing iPhones and computers to useless blocks of plastic and metal - and the world stubbornly refuses to end. Where were the Nuke Pooches, the marauding cannibal, road warriors, the blood-thirsty packs of sentient AIs, and the mushroom clouds? The problem wasn't with Kimi Eisele  (who's debut novel is one those infuriating books that makes you want to congratulate the author for creating something so unique, but at the same time, leaves you completely jealous that they can come so close to perfection with their first try); the problem was me. You see, I thought I was getting a novel about the end of the world, but Kimi Eisele wrote one about the world beginning."   I have underlined "Where were the Nuke Pooches, the marauding cannibal, road warriors," and "the problem was me."ALT

"[At first] I found The Lightest Object in the Universe to be deeply frustrating. Here I am reading a novel about the end of the world [...] where were the nuke pooches, the marauding cannibal, road warriors, the blood thirsty packs [...]? The problem wasn't with Kimi Eisele, [...] the problem was me."

sounds like it's doing a good job of subverting these tropes to have a reader suddenly realize that their expectation of these ideas (as the obvious narrative of what happens in an apocalyptic scenario) has been cultivated through other stories in the genre. that the ubiquity of this one view of humanity and crisis in what they've read in the genre had reached a point where it was genuinely limiting this reader's imagination! that there are possibilities outside of these repeated stories.

thank you for the recommendation! I'll have to check it out.

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hoiist
knight's tale i'm so glad ppl are once again enjoying this movie
thefrostyknight
wellntruly

“Many reviews are useless because, while purporting to condemn the book, they only reveal the reviewer’s dislike of the kind to which it belongs. Let bad tragedies be censured by those who love tragedy, and bad detective stories by those who love the detective story. Then we shall learn their real faults. Otherwise we shall find epics blamed for not being novels, farces for not being high comedies… Who wants to hear a particular claret abused by a fanatical teetotaler, or a particular woman by a confirmed misogynist?”

— C.S. Lewis, “On Science Fiction”

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