Packing

Jul. 10th, 2026 11:39 pm
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Woke up at 10:00 to my alarm, but didn't get out of bed til 11:00. Then had breakfast and coffee.

Puttered around online for awhile, then showered and dressed.

Then I started packing for my trip. Since I'm leaving Tuesday, and I'm going to be busy tomorrow and Sunday, this was my best time to get the nuts and bolts done.

First I packed my clothes, which meant I went through all of my tee shirts and picked out first the ones I didn't want to bring, then picking specifically the ones I did. I found my pajamas that I'm going to wear, and two pairs of jeans plus what I'm wearing up, seven pairs of shorts, and one long sleaved shirt just in case it gets chilly one day, and my bathing suit.

Then after I packed all that I came out to the living room, and fit the three boxes of ashes into the other suitcase. They fit no problem, I also put in the three photos I'm bringing, two of Oldest Brother, and one of my parents together. I'm pretty sure I will be able to fit my computer in that suitcase too. But that doesn't get packed til Monday. I did put my pair of fake Crocs in too. I need them as beach shoes.

I packed some other stuff too, my Nook in my computer bag, also my Fitbit charger, and so on.

Anyway, I did that for most of the day. I made out a list of stuff not to forget, too.

Finally at 5:00 I left for my Al-anon meeting in the Bronx. Got a 25 bus pretty fast, also a 50, so I got in with plenty of time. Had my pizza and then went to wait for the meeting.

Very good meeting and we actually had 7 people for the second one. Very good!

Didn't get a ride to the bus stop but made it with plenty of time. Then only had to wait a few minutes in Queens for the 25.

Got home and Teamed the FWiB. While we were talking, one of the two light bulbs in my ceiling light died. I'll have to change it tomorrow or Sunday. I hope it's easier than the last time.

Anyway, Teamed the FWiB almost an hour and a half, then fed the pets and started here.

Oh BTW the turtle food I ordered Wednesday night from Amazon arrived yesterday, no problem.

May be going to the Mets game tomorrow, if [personal profile] mashfanficchick decides ze's not going. Ze will let me know tomorrow.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. Mostly all packed.

3. The ashes fit in the suitcase.

4. Pizza.

5. My meetings and the people there.

6. Bed soon.
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Posted by Sarah Brown

Nobody expects to come home with a kitten after walking the dog.

Reddit's r/CatDistributionSystem subreddit has a funny way of finding the people who swear they aren't cat people. This time, the delivery arrived on an ordinary dog walk, where one dad spotted a tiny kitten lying on the sidewalk. She was so weak she didn't even try to run when he and the family dog approached. Whatever his feelings about cats had been before that moment, leaving her behind was never an option.

He scooped the kitten into his arms and brought her straight home. While he may only tolerate the family cats, compassion won out the second he saw a helpless animal in need. The plan wasn't to add another permanent family member. Right now, the priority is getting her healthy, helping her gain some weight, and making sure she's ready to find a loving home if that's where her story leads.

The little kitten has already caught a lucky break. She was found with a tipped ear, meaning she'd already been spayed and vaccinated through a trap-neuter-return program. The family also plans to have her scanned for a microchip, just in case someone is searching for her. In the meantime, she's traded a lonely sidewalk for a safe place to rest, plenty of food, and people making sure she gets the care she needs.

Stories like this are a good reminder that being a "cat person" isn't always what matters most. Sometimes kindness shows up before labels do. One quick decision during a routine walk completely changed the course of this kitten's life, giving her the chance to recover instead of being left to struggle alone. Whether she stays with the family or eventually finds a different forever home, one thing is already certain: she found exactly the right person to stop and help when she needed it most.

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Posted by Laerke Christensen

The senator's team said he was recovering in the hospital on July 7, the date he allegedly posted an image of himself on his X account.
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Posted by Sarah Brown

The sweetest course of the meal always attracts the most whiskers.

Every cat is convinced dessert was invented with felines in mind. The second a slice of cake appears or someone reaches for the ice cream, a whiskered food critic magically arrives to supervise the situation. Dinner may have ended long ago, but dessert is a completely different meal as far as cats are concerned.

The approach varies from cat to cat. Some rely on the slow-and-steady method, inching closer to the plate one tiny paw at a time. Others skip straight to the dramatic stare, convinced enough eye contact will eventually earn them a sample. The boldest dessert detectives have no problem planting themselves front and center, making it crystal clear they're more than willing to help finish whatever's left.

Whipped cream has a way of bringing out everyone's inner purrfessional taste tester. Frosting-covered cupcakes suddenly become the most fascinating thing in the room. A donut left unattended for five seconds deserves a thorough sniff inspection. Even a single spoonful of ice cream is enough to send curious noses into overdrive. If something sweet is nearby, these cats are already conducting a full dessert investigation.

Confidence has never been in short supply. These cats don't tiptoe toward the dessert table like they're trying to get away with something. They march right up as if they're the guest of honor, fully expecting someone to pass them a bite. Every glance says the same thing: "That looks delicious, and it's only fair that everyone shares." Whether the answer is yes or no rarely changes the level of optimism.

No dessert goes unnoticed when a curious cat is nearby. They may not always get the bite they were dreaming about, but that never stops them from trying again the next time the cookies come out or another scoop of ice cream hits the bowl. Hope springs furever, especially when dessert is involved.

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Posted by Ayala Sorotsky

Cat naming is a difficult deal, but some names choose the cats just as much as the cats choose us.

I always love a good dad joke. Especially when the dad joke is a literal cat name. I know that some people have a hard time naming their cats, so they end up with names like Cookie Jar Jar Binks, Elephant the III, or Rafi the Refrigerator. Cat naming is a meme in and of itself - take these four kittens with Hobbit names, for example. It's delightful. I also have a cat with a geeky name - she might be just Cassie, but if anyone asks, she's Cassandra Pentaghast (from Dragon Age). But I absolutely lose it when a cat's name is a complete joke. I love it.

That's exactly why I laughed so much finding out that @pizzaandluna's cat is named Pizza, after crying a little - because every abandoned kitten who's adopted makes me tear up. It's the emotional combination of being sad about the street conditions they had to endure, and being joyful for their happy ending after finding a forever home. And this orange precious Pizza is no different - besides the extra spicy sauce of the naming process. Seriously, such a healthy dad joke turned into a cat's name is one of my favorite niche comedy genres.

Besides, I really believe every cat person can relate to this strong pull one feels towards a stray cat they see, that they must take them home. It's all the Cat Distribution System's work. That's just how all of us cat people become cat pawrents. It's like I knew I had to adopt Cassie when I saw her. Just like this sweet couple knew they had to take that Pizza home instead of their original idea for dinner.

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Posted by Ayala Sorotsky

Having cats and babies in the same home is difficult, but cats are always babies.

I have a confession to make - since I had my daughter, my cat seems to distance herself slowly. I feel like I'm dealing with a classic situation of an older sibling who has to adjust to a new baby in the family. And I understand my cat - I was also an only child until a few years later when my younger sister came along. And I've been asking myself lately one question many times - how do I make sure my cat knows she's my baby? Because cats are always babies for their pawrents, and nothing will change that. For me, at least. But I'm sure many others can relate.

My daughter is cute and amazing, and… so is my baby. My cat is my daughter, the first one. And I love both the same. It is true, though, that my human baby has many more needs and requires much more attention. And all that consumes a ton of my time. A time that some of which would be dedicated to my cat - stopping mid-way to pet her when she blocks my path (but now I'm running after the baby who's trying to enter the litter box), playing with the laser pointer until very late at night (but now I have to go to sleep early, because my human daughter is a very early alarm clock I can't snooze). My cat was used to another type of routine.

But my cat always was, and always will be, my baby. Ever since she was a literal one-month-old kitten, saved from a stray cat mama abandonment, to now - when she's an older sister. Nothing will ever change that for me, and I truly hope I can make it clear to her as well. In the meantime, I'm going to drown my mind with some feline funnies, to feel better. You're welcome to join in with me.

Recent reading

Jul. 10th, 2026 07:49 pm
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Continued my short story kick with a new collection by Louise Erdrich, Python's Kiss; I particularly liked her unexpected* foray into sci-fi with a pair of stories set in a San Junipero-like digital afterlife, one about a woman plotting vengeance on her father (also dead, in the same afterlife) and the other about a woman whose version of heaven includes raising a construct of her daughter through (but not past) childhood, over and over, until the current version – the "8037th Caroline" – refuses to fade away and takes over her mother's (after)life instead. Two of the other stories I liked best also shared a thematic link, of women surviving abusive marriages: contemporary fiction played straight in "Wedding Dresses" – the titular dresses a story framework for a woman telling her niece about her four prior marriages – and with a magical-realism twist in "Borsalino," in which the main character's encounter with a ghostly thief in Venice decades before helps her leave her abusive husband. Snakes are another recurring theme. Cool black-and-white illustrations by Erdrich's daughter at the beginning of each story, frequently blurring line between drawing and comic strip.

* It came as a surprise to me, anyway— I'd forgotten about/haven't read her dystopian speculative fiction novel Future Home of the Living God.
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Posted by Blake Seidel

Breathe in. Breathe out. Now meow. See, don't you feel better already?

You know how in yoga classes, you sometimes end with a big "Oooooohhhhmmmm" to finish the class? Well, we're not going to make you do that awkwardly by yourself. But, we do have one thing that might help you feel better on this precarious last day of the work week. And the best part? We're not even going to force you to do it, but we have a feeling you might just do it on your own by the end of this post. That's because we know how much you love cats, and how you can't resist telling them how cute they are. We know because we're the exact same way.

That's the purrre purpose of these heartwarming Friday felines - to lower your stress, calm your nervous system, and reset your day with the wholesome joy of cute cats. Everything else will just fade away as you scroll through fluffy Russian blues with a ridiculously cute pacifier in their mouths, and enjoy the purresence of sweet orange felines enjoying a chin scratch in the summer sun. As all else fades away, a tiny, awwdorable meow might just slip out. It's okay, it's part of the process. Let each meow bubble up inside you and release with all the negative energy you accumulated through the week.

Before we leave you to enjoy your joyous batch of fabulous felines below, we want to remind you that you are purrfectly where you're supposed to be right now. Wait, sorry, we wrote that wrong, we meant to say that you're purrfectly late for feeding your cat dinner. Now go feed them, you know how cranky they get if you make them wait. 

Have a great weekend!

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Posted by Mariel Ruvinsky

Sometimes, when the CDS chooses you, it doesn't actually choose you. It chooses your dog. 

Usually, when we get chosen by the CDS, it doesn't leave any room for interpretation. We know we were chosen. When my kitten followed me home on Independence day, I knew I was chosen. When my husband's cat walked into his home on his birthday, he knew he was chosen. When this man's cat flew in through his window, it fell directly into his lap. But when the kitten on r/CatDistributionSystem walked into the home of her new owners, they… weren't quite sure that it was them she was after.

And it's their own fault, really. When my kitten followed me home, I never told her that I didn't want her. I didn't dare. She chose me as her human, and I accepted it. They told this kitten that they didn't want a cat, and she heard them, and she said: "Yeah, I'm not looking for a human either." Because the CDS doesn't always pair humans with cats. Sometimes, it pairs cats with other animals. And in this case, it was this family's Great Dane that the kitty was after. 

The moment she walked into their home, she went straight toward her target. There was no fear. There was no hesitation. Some would say that there was no self-preservation instinct- when a kitten this small decides to walk straight up to a dog this big, rubbing up against him and heading right for his food. But she did it anyway. Because she knew. These were her forever doggos. The humans just kind of came with the house. And whether they wanted a kitten or not doesn't matter. They got one anyway, and from experience, I can tell you - they will love this kitten more than they have ever thought they could. 

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Posted by Laerke Christensen

The criticism targeted America's medical system, incarceration rate, school shootings, low life expectancy and high infant mortality rates.

Too Many Books?

Jul. 10th, 2026 08:12 pm
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Alex Vadukul writes in the NY Times (archived) about a man who feels like a younger version of me, if I had been a yeshiva bokher:

For a young Jewish scholar and writer named Mendel Uminer, books are the wellspring of enlightenment. So when he scored a studio apartment a block away from Central Park on Manhattan’s Upper East Side a year ago, he brought his books with him — all 10,000 of them. What followed, at least for a little while, was a charmed existence in his 600-square-foot temple of knowledge.

Towering stacks of Judaica lined the walls, heaps of film criticism and opera history filled the prewar bathroom, piles of plays and poems blocked a window, and Uminer slept on a floor mattress engulfed in dog-eared novels. Waking up around noon, he spent his afternoons on his sunlit chaise, devouring the works of Yiddish writers like Chaim Grade and critics like Edmund Wilson, nourishing his mind while the city churned outside.

“I’m always reading,” Uminer, 31, said. “I’m reading to extract knowledge. Every book I own, I need. My library is my manual for life.”

He worked as a freelance Hebrew translator and used the apartment as the headquarters for his fledgling literary journal, Notarikon Review, hosting parties that gained a reputation among quarters of New York’s literary underclass. Striving writers drank beer among the teetering stacks while arguing over foreign affairs and Greek poetry.

The stacks kept rising as Uminer added his hauls from thrift shops, book dealers and eBay deliveries. “I don’t think of myself as a hoarder,” he said, “but I guess my building did.”

This past winter, he received a notice from building management. “You are violating a substantial obligation of your tenancy,” it began. “You are maintaining the Premises in a severely overcluttered condition; permitting the over-accumulation of books in the Premises; creating a fire hazard by over-accumulating combustible books in the Premises.” […]

One afternoon last month, Uminer stood amid the leaning towers, savoring his unruly paradise while he still could. As klezmer music played from his phone, he ran his hand across the spines of “The Russian Theater after Stalin” and “The Kurdish Question in Iraq.” He tenderly held up a book of poems by Abraham Reisen, a Yiddish writer he was smitten with.

“Sure, maybe I’m a little bit different,” he said. “And I know my library might seem excessive to some. But it’s not as excessive as people might think. In a rabbinic household, no one would blink twice at a library like mine. Reading is part of my culture.” […]

Raised in a Hasidic enclave of Crown Heights, Mendel grew up speaking Yiddish with his grandparents, listening to the teachings of his bearded Lubavitcher rabbi uncles and attending troika dances in banquet halls. His father, a pious real estate broker named Isaac, relished studying the Torah with him. But the boy craved literature. At 12, he was reading Dostoyevsky.

In his teens, Uminer attended rabbinical seminary, where he embraced Talmudic study. Lessons began at 7 a.m. and ended with nights of vodka-fueled argument with the rabbis.

“My days were spent studying texts in Aramaic, Hebrew and Yiddish, and I sometimes went a whole year without seeing a woman’s face, but I was also disobedient and incorrigible,” he said. “I was always reading what I wanted to read, not only what they wanted me to read. But that’s where you assert yourself. Where you form your opinions. Where you make your own sense of the world.”

“If I form an opinion, and there are books saying the opposite, I need to read them all, to know if I’m justified,” he continued. “If I’m not convinced, I should let my conviction go.”

In his early 20s, as he grew engrossed in Ovid and Rousseau, he befriended writers at Caffe Reggio in Greenwich Village and found himself browsing more at the Strand than at the Judaica emporiums of south Brooklyn. One year before his ordination, he turned away from the path set out for him.

“It dawned on me I wasn’t as much of a true believer as I thought I was,” he said. “Maybe it upset my grandparents, but I decided I should just go do what I wanted to do, which was enter the modern liberal cultural society of New York. I didn’t want to be drunk on medieval piety anymore.” […]

After putting away his kipa, Uminer enrolled at Columbia University to study film and philosophy. Outside the classroom, he interned at Tablet magazine. After graduating at 27, he met a young woman from Paris. He soon ventured to her home city, where the romance came to an end.

“She kicked me out of her apartment, but I stayed in Paris until I spent my last dollar,” Uminer said. “I smoked Gitanes in the Marais. I got robbed in the subway. They had the best politics journals and literary magazines. Paris changed me.”

He spent hours at the book stands along the Seine. Reading journals like Nouvelle Revue Française and Connaissance des Arts, he found his vocation.

“These French journals had people making arguments in ways that really mattered,” he said. “So much of our writing here is about, ‘You must choose a lane.’ Theirs has a comfort with controversy, a precision in argument, a sense of historic consciousness, that we need more of.”

Back in New York, Uminer decided to start a publication of his own, Notarikon Review, an eclectic journal that will “publish people who don’t agree on everything,” he said. Some of the writers he has recruited are former social media adversaries. The debut print issue, scheduled to come out later this year, will include fiction by Julia Kornberg, an essay by Hayley Jean Clark about the artist Anna Weyant and a translation of a Yiddish short story by Abraham Reisen. Uminer conducted his first editorial meeting, over pizza and beer, on the floor of his Upper East Side studio.

You’ll be happy to know he found a new place (“I heard he’s found a bigger apartment,” Danziger added. “So that means, more books.”), and there’s a charming description of how his friends helped him move. There are also photos of his bookshelves, and I swear to you, every book I see is either something I have (Beckwith, The Tibetan Empire in Central Asia; Pound and Fenollosa, The Chinese Written Character as a Medium for Poetry) or something I’d love to read. If I lived in NYC, I’d go visit him; as it is, I’ll have to check out his magazine, whose prospectus reads:

Our house organ, the Notarikon, will begin publication late in 2026. A print quarterly of arts and letters, it will contain fiction, poetry and criticism. The first issue will include a series of essays on Portuguese and European literature by Fernando Pessoa, originally published in 1912 and never before translated into English, as well the opening chapters of In The Flat World, a novel by the art historian Thomas Brown.

The translation from the Yiddish of The Critic, a vignette by Avrom Reisen, serves as a thematic preface. Reisen’s tale is the internal monologue of a theater critic whose sycophantic habits backfire; self-preservation forces him to resurrect traces of sincerity from the graveyard of his unconscious. The story is the first offering of a project to translate Reisen’s fictional oeuvre.

In tribute to Adam Mickiewicz’s aborted daily, La Tribune des Peuples, an English edition of the poet’s lectures on Slavic literature, delivered in Paris in the 1840’s, is in development and will debut in our second issue. Mickiewicz’s Tribune and its more respectable cousin, the Buloz-era Revue des Deux Mondes, predate the cinema and all but the earliest stages of photography, yet serve as a model for our quarterly, which is not confined to promotional film matter or seduced by the temptations of topical specialization, partisan allegiance or other strategies of refuge.

Notarikon is “a Talmudic method of interpreting Biblical words as acronyms,” or as the website has it:

The Aramaic notarikon is a late antique portmanteau of the Latin for notice or notation and the Greek for image or imitation. A notarikon is an acronym, code or insignia, a word transformed into image or a sign invested with text.

I presume the surname Uminer is from Uman, once a center of the Jewish community of Podolia, but if you do a Google search you find suggestions like Myheritage.com’s “The name is believed to derive from the word umina, which translates to to be skilled or to have knowledge,” which sounds like a wild guess to me. At any rate, more power to him, and may his books increase! (Thanks for the link go to Eric and Bonnie.)

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Posted by Mariel Ruvinsky

In a world where the timeline is filled with nothing but chaos and negativity, we really do need something soft to cleanse our eyes with. 

I don't know about you guys, but my timeline, for the past… six years or so, has been straight-up toxic. Something glitched in the matrix in 2020, and it simply has not been fixed yet. Basically since then, my timeline has been nothing but chaos and negativity. News that I don't want to see. Stories that there solely to rage-bait me into clicking them. Drama here, drama there, and just like with every classic toxic relationship, something keeps pulling me back in. Except, at least in this case, I know exactly what it is. It's cats. 

Listen, I was there before the madness of 2020. And even earlier than that. I was there during the classic time of the internet, when everything online was funny cat memes and adorable cat pictures. These things were always there. They're part of what made the internet so special, why people kept coming back. And that hasn't changed. Cats still rule the web. If you look closely enough, you will find the cute cat pictures and silly cat stories that you are looking for. They are just being swallowed up by the rest of the algorithm. 

And that's why we're here. That's why I'm here specifically, writing for ICHC. Because here, we bring you the things that you actually want to see. Here, I can sit down and put together the most wholesome collection of the cutest cat adoption stories and share it with you guys. I can create something uplifting, something cleansing, something purely cat and make it have an impact. Make it change someone's day. Make someone's frown turn upside down. This is your much-needed timeline cleanse, friends. 

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The claim stems from credible reporting about a federal probe into the soccer association over potential money laundering and tax evasion.

2026 2nd Set of Ducklings

Jul. 9th, 2026 05:08 pm
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We spotted a second set of ducklings on the lake! This was somewhat distressing at first because the babies were following mama to the retaining wall, which she flew up onto and they were stuck below.

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