My brain hurts
*venting and asking a question*
Tonight, I had to do something I HATE to do.
I had to tell someone that they were replaced in my RP, and chances are, they're going to be asked to leave. Most of the others in the RP don't care much for the person involved, and many have downright refused to interact with the person in any way. I tried to give this person a chara that doesn't interact much with others as a way to compromise.
Maybe I'm being too nice. Its not the first time I've been accused of this.
Granted, the person's not the kindest person in the world. I've heard "selfish, self-absorbed, mean, a godmodder, pushy, bossy, yelling at others to try to get them to do things their way, a bully" and other terms that probably shouldn't be repeated, by those that don't get along with this person.
This person also thinks that we're BFFs. I already HAVE BFFs.
So, I'm asking the others in the RP for a vote as to whether or not this person should stay. Its not looking good. Its beginning to look like I'm going to have to ask this person to leave the RP. I don't think that they're going to take it well. And, chances are, I'm going to see them at a local con that we both work at.
Has anyone else ever had to ask someone to leave a RP in order to save it? If so, how did you do it and how did they take it? Any advise as to what to do should this happen again?
Sometimes, I hate being a Mod. Or even a Co-Mod.
Ryuichi
Tonight, I had to do something I HATE to do.
I had to tell someone that they were replaced in my RP, and chances are, they're going to be asked to leave. Most of the others in the RP don't care much for the person involved, and many have downright refused to interact with the person in any way. I tried to give this person a chara that doesn't interact much with others as a way to compromise.
Maybe I'm being too nice. Its not the first time I've been accused of this.
Granted, the person's not the kindest person in the world. I've heard "selfish, self-absorbed, mean, a godmodder, pushy, bossy, yelling at others to try to get them to do things their way, a bully" and other terms that probably shouldn't be repeated, by those that don't get along with this person.
This person also thinks that we're BFFs. I already HAVE BFFs.
So, I'm asking the others in the RP for a vote as to whether or not this person should stay. Its not looking good. Its beginning to look like I'm going to have to ask this person to leave the RP. I don't think that they're going to take it well. And, chances are, I'm going to see them at a local con that we both work at.
Has anyone else ever had to ask someone to leave a RP in order to save it? If so, how did you do it and how did they take it? Any advise as to what to do should this happen again?
Sometimes, I hate being a Mod. Or even a Co-Mod.
Ryuichi

stressed
giddy