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my friend just told me that there's a secret second dashboard that solely contains posts from people you've turned on post notifications for, and when i click the link in the messages it opens it within the tumblr app, so the tumblr app also has a secret second dashboard for post notification blogs, and the only way to access it is to open the link for it within the app.

i literally love tumblr

HIT that comment and like button and remember to SUBSCRIBE to send my posts to EEBY DEEBY

This is actually kind of cool for artists who post at 2 AM because its done and they have no self control. I don't do that tho of course not

me: yeah so a few years ago someone invented infinite scrolling and really it was a terrible idea

the elf I just hooked up with, taking the lavender and honeysuckle lollipop from their mouth: An infinite scroll... most elfmaidens learn to enchant a scroll to never end before they're a mere 300 years old. It saves on paper.

me: oh see that's just writing, with social media it's really bad, it just leads to people doomscrolling all day

the elf I just hooked up with, spluttering and panicked: The Doomscroll! Be silent human, thou shoulds't not speak the name of that fell parchment

me: oh so you get it

evening of passion with my 12 ton dragon girlfriend

would the person who tagged this with marcille donato and falin touden please approach the bench for a high five

please help two brazilian trans women survive

we are in a really bad place right now. with my physically abusive father getting worse and worse and having to pay out of pocket for doctors this month, we have literally no money left. we have bills to pay, hrt to get, meds to buy, and need help moving out of an abusive situation. any help at all would be GREATLY appreciated.

please help us if you can.

p*yp*l: leandrocpj@gmail.com

PIX: 11 94801-6032

now my father is "forbidding" my mother from seeing her family. we need to get the fuck out of here

I do not think it was a good idea to mainstream "femboy" as a piece of terminology on account of it being a transmisogynistic slur and especially one being used to deny transfemininity. Like idk, even assuming the most generous interpretation of the concept of "gender-nonconforming men who like to cross-dress" we already had terms like "gender-nonconforming" or perhaps "cross-dresser." But being less generous I don't think we should be taking probable transfems without the space to understand themselves as such and calling them a sexually-charged transmisogynistic slur as a means to euphemize or avoid mentioning or even outright deny that they could be trans women. It's not very nice and I think they deserve better :(

"but it's being reclaimed so it's ok to call them that" how is it being reclaimed?? I say that it's being mainstreamed and not reclaimed for good reason. People bend over backwards to maintain the idea that the femboy identity in the modern sense is something other than transfemininity, right? So either they're not actually transfems and are just appropriating the terminology, in which case you shouldn't call them that, or they are transfems, meaning it actually is a reclaimed slur, in which case you also probably shouldn't call them that. Does the concept of slur reclamation mean nothing anymore??

ive been biting my tongue and stewing on this for the better part of a decade at this point and now that it's re-entered transfeminist discourse YOU all get to hear about how much "femboy" entering the mainstream lexicon has pissed me off