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So, I've recently had a huge breakup after a two-year relationship.  What I want to know is how to move on; how do I find someone else? It seems that everyone I'm atrracted to doesn't even notice me.  How do I let people know that I can be more than just a friend? What should I do to get people to notice me??

Hello!

I was initially going to use the default message that they encourage
we send to our friends and family, but I thought I'd rather write my
message to those in the livejournal community.

Times are tough--we are all experiencing a bit (or a lot) of the pinch
because of what is happening with our economy. As a result of this,
the State of California has drastically cut funding for HIV/AIDS. In
San Diego County alone, we stand to lose over $1,000,000 of funding
for HIV testing and counseling, early intervention programs and
prevention:

http://www.sdnn.com/sandiego/2009-…

http://www.examiner.com/x-20225-SF…
Schwarzenegger-budget-cuts-and-HIVAIDS-Where-do-we-go-from-here

AIDS Walk San Diego helps ensure that people living with HIV/AIDS in
our community receive the services and support they need. I want to be
a part of that effort and that is why I’ll be walking in the 20th
Annual AIDS Walk San Diego on Sunday, September 27!

HIV has impacted many people I know and love. I want to ensure they
continue to receive the services and support they need. I know you
care too. Will you sponsor me today? Thank you for your support!

Please help me support AIDS Walk, so that we can continue to provide
some funding to help those who are in need.

Click on the link below, and please help me reach my goal. Any amount
will help.

http://aidswalksd.kintera.org/faf/…

Thank you,
Fernan Balsalubre

I know those of us who support NO on 8 are heartbroken over how things played out last night. I think it is time to "hit them where it hurts" and stop doing business with businesses who contributed to YES on 8. We tried to play it nice, but the other side did not play nice at all, and now we have legislated bigotry in California. People from other countries come to California to escape inequality. The list of businesses is long, so you will have to look through a lot of them to see if you happen to do business with any of them.


http://www. californiansagainsthate. com/dishonorRoll. html

"Terry Caster, the owner of A-1 Storage, a self-storage company based in San Diego, said he received a few phone calls a day that petered out after several weeks, and his business wasn't affected.


"To tell a business owner that they can't express their beliefs on an issue is a really stupid thing," said Mr.
Caster"

Ok this is a little embarassing. I'm gay. Duh? With a boyfriend and porn collection to prove it. I've sort of aquired a self professed fag hag. I've known her for a while but only recently have we hung out more. I'm 16 she's 15 and our parents are friends. She knew I was gay without me telling her and she's all about hearing about my boyfriend etc. Anywho, I think I have a crush on her. Very confusing. I'm not unhappy about it. I'm just wondering if this is common or am I a freak? Don't tell me I'm Bi. Oh god no. Anything but that. (nothing against bi people, its just hard enough being gay).

Hey everyone i'm James

i live in Queenland, Australia

ive had this community as a friend for AGES so i thought i may as well introduce myself :D

soo yehh

this is me:

Anyone here  from PA?

I'm new. Saying hello. My name is Chris and I'm not overly exciting. I live on the Middle East Coast of the US. 24 years old and painfully, life-long single. Favorite singer: Madonna; color: red.

My life is a mash-up of random facts, but for a survey I once did, my "random fact" was that I never had a real kiss til I was 22.

So, ( Collapse )

:)

Anyway, it's nice to be here. So, howdy.

Just out of curiosity, would you date someone with your name? Like Max and Max.

Personally, I don't really care. As long I like the person and the person likes me. And I'm in this situation right now with someone in my writing class. Fun, fun.

And happy holidays!

You see, the latter implies a pre-existing condition (another reason to deny us health care; someone call Michael Moore!)

Has anyone here ever been fucked stupid? You know, like when afterward it takes you a long time to remember your own name and you stumble a lot like your channeling Anna Nichole Smith (God bless her drugged-out soul).

"Do you looooove me? What's your name? Sugar-pie, SHUT-UP!"

I have the feeling this may be epidemic in the gay community and, unfortunately, the top slapped the bottom on the back right afterward and they're stuck like that for life. It would explain my BFF for, like, two months five years ago and all his tremor-y behavior... well... that and cocaine.

"Cocaine's a helluva drug!" When Rick James is right, he's... well... sober? Hell, I dunno.

Oh! And what the hell is the appeal of public men's room sex? Whiskey Tango Foxtrot? I'm gay, but not to an insane degree. I mean, God, the smell alone; urinal cake technology has advanced only so far.

And, I'm sorry Senator, but the "wide stance" angle doesn't make any rational sense. You have to do the splits to drop a Cosby at the public pool? What the fuck are you, a sumo wrestler?

Now women's rooms... I once accidentally (yes, I'm telling the truth, damnit) walked into one at a restaurant in Jersey -- Jersey: my God, the beautiful Italian boys: greasy enough to wipe their foreheads, wring out the wrag and fry chicken (just like I love 'em) -- and there was a fucking loveseat! A fucking antique loveseat in the bathroom and it was GORGEOUS! Frankly, I'm shocked that there isn't a non-stop lesbian orgy in those places all day, everyday.

So, you may want to know why I ask these thing and the answer is simple to me and probably complicated to everyone else. I drum to the march of a different beater -- wait, that's not right! Oh well, you know what I mean. Long story short, I'm working on my second book, Southern, Fried, which is to be an odd mix of a non-linear memoir, a self-help parody, and a comedic look a politics and western culture and I want to make sure I'm not talking out of my ass here: something I wouldn't be surprised if one of you could do literally!

Oh and boys, I feel like a dick -- but don't I always? -- for asking, but there is an implied copyright to all of this as it will be going in my book, in some form or another. That being said, I don't care if you re-post, but please give credit were credit is due. *curtsy*

Kay, so I was watching Kathy Griffin's new special the other night (Yeahhh I know SO gay. But I love her.), and she was talking about the whole Larry Craig scandal, and went on to say there's this entire system of signals and things gays do in bathrooms to send discreet messages about sexual acts... Now I know nothing about it... does anyone else?

..And NO I do NOT want a bathroom handjob (haha.) I just thought it'd be something interesting to get the community talking again... yeah? So.... any input?