couple things to keep in mind im an adult im a man i put nsfw stuff on here and reblog nsfw and bugs spiders snakes and other animals. i dont have a dni if i see someone interacting that i don’t like i just block them or avoid them

im pretty bad at remembering why i unfollow or follow people or even who i follow cause i follow a lot of people so i might be inconsistent with that, and honestly sometimes i unfollow people i should’ve just blocked im working on that.

i talk a lot i reblog and relike and rereblog stuff if i really like it alot basically do everything a lot and i dont really have a tagging system and i struggle to read

i wanted to pin lots of stuff but i can only pin one thing so im like piling them all up here in links that are my favorites

I’m probably not roleplaying anymore for a few reasons

a lot of people on here can get real mean or vengeful and starts debates or witch hunts and or don’t really have boundaries or warnings or just a basic sense of what harassment and assault is and that its bad to do that to other people
it ruined it for me

i gave these people the benefit of the doubt when i shouldnt have and realized and learned a lot of fandom etiquette and safety terms, information, and history way too late

some good people blocked me because they picked up on what was going on when i didnt and blocked me because i was interacting a lot with mean people and some other ones got their accounts got deleted so a lot of my favorite blogs arent around or dont interact with me anymore anyway

(im talking specifically in the tf2 roleplay space, there are other people i talk to who are decent and were friends on tumblr)

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im struggling to word this but if anyone like recognizes the (intentionally or unintentionally) being friends with ppl who were like harassing and insulting people thing as a mistake and is turning over new leaf i would be down to talk characters or rp if i was reached out to as long as its something genuine

in the future if i do rp id wanna find out some way to not make it a big reblog chain and also of course classic boundaries of i wouldnt be like doing anything flirty with eddie with anyone who wasnt around my age or if i know the person is mean or hurts anyone also eddie is gay and aromantic dont expect him to date or flirt with women or respond well to women flirting with him

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reminder i dont fuck with fascism so i block people who are any of that; puritanical, eugenics, bioessentialism, whatever. i block it all and people who are like willfully ignorant about it and refuse to learn and do research on anything

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if anyone in tf2 is wondering theres a post about me on a callout blog accusing me of grooming someone
the blog is antiship and accuses people who are proship or people it thinks are proship of being pedophiles and tries to get them chased off the internet so they can get these people who ship things they dont like chased out of their fandom

the anon accusing me is a girl who considered kink and queerness to be predatory and invading the fandom and online and she tried to befriend me, a gay man. id point out when she did something homophobic and was harassing people she kept asking me to point it out eventually blocked me and is now made this anon calling me a predator

heres like why im not doing anything about it or saying who she is and stuff