they/them 🏳️🌈
I just finished my first Steddie art and I thought I’d share it here! I’m not a professional illustrator I just do art for fun so it’s not perfect, but I’m still pretty happy with how it came out!
The boys were haunting me after i saw a clip from a Joseph Quinn movie on YouTube so I just had to draw them hehe
The reference I used for the pose is a screenshot from here:
you have an absolute power within your grasp, you only have to wield it.
frame redraw of my favorite scene in season 3 <3
When nobody else was remember who was there for you at your lowest. That's right. Completely and absolutely dogshit music
if you don’t believe in dryhumping + making out + being handsy before the sex then do not hmu
The Rogue Prince Daemon Targaryen and Caraxes the Blood Wyrm.
Their bond is so beautiful.
“everyone is mad at me and they just won’t tell me” —> “no one has said anything about being mad at me and i haven’t done anything to warrant being mad at so if someone is silently fuming about me and not saying anything that’s their problem and actually quite weird of them and i can effortlessly move on with my life”
this took SUCH a huge deal of unlearning because, like so many of you, i came out of a home where being quietly in trouble WAS the default state, and i DID grow up not just with the assumption but borderline religious conviction that Everyone Is Mad At Me, I Am Bad, I Must Exist In A Constant State of Attempting to Pacify The Natural Rage I Inspire In Everyone. and no it actually turns out that my family are the freaks . and yours are too
“this isn’t true because i DEFINITELY silently fume at people in the hopes they’ll figure out what they did and apologize” that’s not good. you shouldn’t do that
“this isn’t true because the ex-friendship that traumatized me ended explosively after they were mad at me and never told me why” that’s not good. they shouldn’t be doing that
“i don’t think this is true because my current friend group is constantly icing me out until i figure out what ive done to upset them and properly apologized without being told” hey thats not good. they should not be doing that
if the peacefulness of your relationship with someone (familial, romantic, friendly, anything) can be destroyed by effective communication/asking them for effective communication, you have got to get out of there. if you can’t get out of there, you’ve got to throw away any ideas about what that person thinks of you because they have their own shit to figure out before they can accurately read anyone else
