Show a little faith, there’s magic in the night

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
ueberdemnebelmeer
hierophagy

and my take today is that framing misogynistic writing as an "inability to write female characters" subconsciously takes away most of the blame, implying that women are an alien creature compared to men and that it is no fault of the writer because it's out of their skill set. it's not an inability, not a lack of expertise, it's the simple refusal to consider women as individual people and give them the same depth and grace that comes easily to the writer when they write male characters. it's not that christopher nolan, stephen king, james cameron (and frankly anyone using the argument, both professional and hobbyist; yes, that includes fanfic writers) etc can't write women, it's that they just won't. at that point in time it is a conscious decision driven by the laziness to unpack their misogynistic biases, and should be addressed as such

frogcoded
frogcoded

Also like I say this but all this home business has made me acutely aware that because I’m a young woman and because I’m kind and accommodating they do absolutely tend to take advantage of that and honestly it’s shitty as fuck

frogcoded

Wouldn’t you know it it happened again

on god I am so tired of this told my dad this and he just said ‘and it’s gonna be like this for the rest of your life’ wow thanks dad

Also like I say this but all this home business has made me acutely aware that because I’m a young woman and because I’m kind and accommodating they do absolutely tend to take advantage of that and honestly it’s shitty as fuck

like do I need to be screaming at you for you to do things properly and worst thing is I always realise like three hours later ‘wait. I should have said absolutely not to that’ I’m just not good at putting my foot down ok esp with stuff like this because it’s my first time and I have no idea what it’s normal to expect and. my dad is very good at doing this but I think he fundamentally doesn’t value the work of these people and I don’t want to be like that there has to be another way of getting what you want without acting like the people delivering your furniture are idiots which you need to control otherwise they won’t respect you