Mudler and Scully

Story's Birth Story

I woke up on September 9th to very light cramping. After about an hour, I realized they were contractions and they were about 20 minutes apart. When Doug woke up, I told him that today was the day. So I went back to timing contractions and began sewing for my final for my Monday class. I spent most of the morning and afternoon sewing a purse while contracting about ever 8 to 10 minutes. I tried to sit still so that I could space them out and not get them closer until I was done sewing. When I finally finished my project, I got up to take a shower and immediately, as if my body knew, my contractions got closer to every 5 to 7 minutes. So I finished packing, made arrangements for the boys to stay with their grandma and left for Target and then the hospital.

In the car, the contractions were about every 4 or 5 minutes. We went to Target to get some last minute things. The cashier was so freaked out that I was there in labor. I told her I was fine just needed to breathe through them but she looked so scared for me. Haha. Afterwards, we arrived at the hospital around 8pm and met up with my photographer, Roberta. I was taken back to triage first where I was contracting every 2 to 3 minutes. I told the nurse I didn't want to change into a gown though because I didn't think I was that far along yet since it didn't really hurt yet. When my midwife checked me though I was already 100% thinned out and I was already at 8cm! That was surprising to me, the midwife and the nurse who couldn't believe that I was already that far along since I was still walking around and joking. So I was admitted and taken to a labor room.

I immediately gave my nurse my birth plan and explained that I did not want any interventions unless it was an emergency. She was excited to have an easy patient so she left me alone. My midwife asked if I wanted an IV which I said no so she asked if I would take a Hep Loc and I said no to that as well so she said okay make sure you drink plenty of liquids and I told her that I had made Labor Aid and she said perfect. Doug set up my diffuser with Clary Sage and Lavender and I got to walking around the room. I honestly didn't want to lay down or sit almost the entire time so the nurse would just check Story's heartbeat once an hour for like 5 minutes while I stood. I walked and walked for a couple hours. I joked around with Doug and Roberta and told Roberta about my past births and so on. She was so impressed with how well I was laboring. Just before midnight or so, I was finally starting to feel really intense pressure and I finally couldn't speak through the contractions so I asked the midwife to check me. She did and I was still an 8 but she was really low so I got back up and continued walking. They got really intense and I was hanging onto Doug during a contraction when I realized I was pushing without thinking, I knew this was it so we had the nurse come in and she got me onto the bed and I had a huge contraction that broke my water. I always thought when I saw movies where the water splash across the room by the gallons, that was some kind of exaggeration but it's not!! My water flew across the floor, easily 4 to 5 feet and almost got the nurse wet. It spilled over the bed though and got her legs and feet wet. She ended up taking a shower. Once my water broke, I felt her immdiately descending. I didn't want to birth on my back but I couldn't turn around onto all fours because she was so low and in the canal so I got to my side and pushed that way instead. Within 15 minutes, I felt the ring of fire and she was out! Her cord was wrapped around her neck twice so the midwife had me hold off pushing and she unwrapped the cord twice and then prompted me to push and Story came right out. I couldn't believe how fast things progressed this time!! My first took 2 and half hours of pushing and my second son was quicker at 45 minutes but this was insanely short! Story Luna Amelia was born at 00:46 weighing 8lbs 7oz and long like her brother at 21 inches. She was also covered in the most vernix I have ever seen!!! She was completely white and cheesy!! I told the nurses I wanted to rub it all in so I rubbed most of it in and even got some on my face, so I rubbed that in as well.

While she was on my chest, my midwife waited for her cord to turn stark white before having Doug cut the cord. Within 30 minutes with the help of no medications whatsoever, I birthed the placenta intact. Then Doug got my placenta boxed up and iced for the Placenta lady, Amanda. Story stayed with me while I got a couple stitches. I got another very light 2nd degree tear just like Hurricane. Hurt a little getting stitched up but other than that, I never had any real pain with these stitches or healing. I'm two weeks post partum and I would never have known if my midwife didn't tell me. After about 90 minutes, Story passed her first bowel movement on me so we both got cleaned up and she was weighed and measured. I then got up and into the wheelchair to transfer over to the recovery unit. It was surprisingly easy to get up and walked after birth this time. We got settled into our room and spent the day welcoming family and loving our little girl. The nurse offered me motrin once but I declined and she said I was the most laid back, easy patient she ever had. I was discharged the very next morning and I was back at class the next morning for Finals. Story came into this world with no drugs or medications and she left the hospital with any vaccines, Vitamin K, eye ointment or the heel prick. She picked up breastfeeding easy peasy, no latch issues, no pain and my milk came in on day 2. I've already begun to pump to stash milk away for her and my friend who may need milk to supplement for her son when he gets here in November. Story has gained weight beautifully and barely makes a peep. She is the perfect baby to end my pregnant years. Recovery has been a breeze, I've been up and about since she got here finishing my school work and she sleeps throught he night easily 90% of the time. I am very blessed and I am very proud to say that I have had three beautiful medication free births. Each one was different but I'm damn proud of them all. 
Mudler and Scully

Hurricane's Birth Story

07/08/2015 was my expected due date for my second son. This pregnancy was nothing like my first one. I was sick everyday for the first four months. My husband was in the hospital when I was six weeks pregnant and it just took a toll on my body. I lost 20 lbs over the course of the pregnancy. In total by the time I gave birth, I had only gained 6 lbs over my pre-pregnancy weight. We were read some blood results incorrectly that had us worried about some obscure medical disease that never ever was a real problem. The California prenatal screening came back positive for Down Syndrome so we had to go in for more extensive testing to make sure that baby was healthy even if he had Down Syndrome since we were committed to keeping him regardless of the outcome; tests came back normal.

Then as I reached the end of the pregnancy, my blood pressure rose slightly which it always does for me even when I'm not pregnant, I just have "High Normal Blood Pressure" but just in case, to be safe, they scheduled me for Non Stress Tests twice every week until he was born and I had to have my liver tested weekly. Finally I hit my 40 weeks and they were worried that he still wasn't here and my blood pressure was still High Normal. So they wanted an induction that day but I explained that I wanted a natural birth and delivery so I asked for three more days for labor to kick in and then if it didn't I would compromise and allow the induction. The midwife agreed reluctantly. I just didn't feel right trying to get him out before he wanted to come but I also understood the risks of my blood pressure possibly skyrocketing.

So I had her check me that day and I was already 3 cm dilated and 60% effaced. I had been taking Red Raspberry Leaf tea 2-4 times a day since 32 weeks and I had been taking Evening Primrose Oil since 36 weeks. So I opted for a stretch and sweep to help "encourage" labor. I walked a ton the next day hoping to jump start labor, nothing. Friday, I had another Non Stress Test and baby was doing fine. The nurse heard me say that I really didn't want to induce on Saturday night so she offered to sweep me again. I agreed and she checked me and I was now a "strong" 4 cm. That was encouraging so we went home and my husband used Clary Sage Essential oil on my pressure points on my ankles that were commonly known for inducing labor. I also had him rub Clary Sage, Lavender and Jasmine on my back, feet and belly. About 30 min later, things began to happen and I knew labor was imminent. I woke up Saturday morning knowing that I had an induction scheduled that night for 11:30pm but by 1pm, contractions had become more regular on their own. So we waited around to see what would happen. They ramped up a little but not much so I slept for a few hours. By 10pm, we arrived at the hospital and walked the halls to encourage the contractions.


When I showed up for my induction, I told the nurse that I had beat them to the punch! She laughed and got me set up in a room. The midwife came and checked me and I was 7cm! So she agreed to let me labor on my own and she would be back to check on me. So I labored with my husband and my doula until about 3:30 when my water broke but it was just a trickle and by 5am, the midwife checked me again and said I was still 7cm but that my son had wedged his head in my cervix causing my water not to break fully so she offered to help break it so that it encourage the contractions so I agreed since it had already broke before that anyway. After she broke it about 15 minutes later, the contractions increased and became much more painful. From 6am to 9 am, I went to 9 and 1/2 cm. The nurse told me not to push just yet but then the overwhelming urge to push came on strong and hard.



I could not fight the urge to push so I knew it was time. I decided to birth on the bed on my hands and knees. My doula put her birthing ball in front of me for support and every time I was push, I could bear down on my knees and then in between I rested by leaning on the ball. I pushed for 40 min and only suffered a superficial 2nd degree tear that needed a mere 5 stitches; nothing compared to my last tear that was a 4th degree. The midwife supported me with perineal massage and compression but that last two pushes, I pushed a little fast. The whole time I doubted that I could do natural again as it was so exhausting this time and I was in so much pain those last 2 cm but my husband and my doula encouraged me the entire time and really helped remind me of what I wanted when the irrational thoughts began to creep into my mind.



My son was born at 9:45am on 07/12/2015 at the Gestational Age of 40wk and 4 days weighing only 7lbs 7 oz which really surprised me since Zen was about a pound bigger but I just looked so much bigger this time and he was so strong inside the womb. He was only 19 3/4" long as well. He doesn't even fit in his Newborn diapers that well yet. We were not used to that! He latched on to breastfeeding in about 15 minutes or so. We delayed his cord clamping and Doug cut the cord this time. He got his skin to skin with me and daddy. We delayed his bath and I birthed the placenta and the midwife gave it to my husband who then gave it to my placenta encapsulation person. Kaiser was so great with my birth plan. They even let me birth without a hep/saline lock. I wasn't given any lectures about refusing meds or anything. The best hospital that supported my natural wishes. This labor was much more painful than my first but the recovery and outcome was better. I would totally do it all over again the same with no medications. We were discharged the very next day and I'm walking around just fine. Hurricane is doing fantastic and we couldn't be happier!

Mudler and Scully

Eeeeeeekkkkkk!

I have not posted on my blog here in like a thousand years so here is a super short one. I will be using this blog for my commitment ceremony updates in the next month and then I'll finally start taking care of my blog, yay!
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I'm leaving to go to Oregon for a few days. I'm selling my art so everybody have a nice weekend and I'll be back next Tuesday. Bye!