so this applies to both females and males, but its something i was pondering last night.
how many people do you know that constantly complain about how there is no good girls/guys out there? a lot probably. what bothers me is that a guy or a girl will get out of a relationship with someone who was mean or psycho or clingy or weird, and so they need a bunch of time to recover from it and they dont trust the opposite sex anymore. thats where good guys and good girls get screwed. you're there for people and you listen to them talk about how their ex was crazy and how theyre convinced that theres no good guys or girls out there anymore. it makes me so mad because i know that there are good guys and girls out there but it just seems that we never get a chance to be with someone because theyre always chasing after the ones who treat them like crap. same with people who stay in relationships long after its over just because they don't want to be single. uh...what? yeah, i'd really rather stay with someone who i fight with constantly than be single and meet someone who treats me well. so basically, mean guys and mean girls just remember when you're pulling out the psycho card, youre not just hurting the person you're with, but everyone they might be with in the future. and even after they get over it when you actually get into a relationship with this person who has been treated like crap you have to deal with them having trust issues and listen to how badly theyve been treated. its like guilt by association. i dont know if what i said just made any sense what soever but i just had to get it out of my head.
wow this is crazy im not having an insane bitchy blog haha.
okay so school is awesome even tho i have 17 credits and im a business major, im taking scuba diving so im going to be certified to scuba dive! maybe i can go in holmes lake when im certified and see the nasty 3 eyed fish. haha. my business classes are awesome. i love my major.
cross country!!!!! okay so im super slow, but its all good because the girls are AWESOME! theyre so nice! i've never met a group of females i like so much. i'm getting better every day and our first meet is next friday and im sure even with my slow ass our team as a whole will kick ass. the way the scoring works is that 7 girls run and the top 5 score and 6 and 7 are just for tie breakers. these girls are so fast like nascar. its crazy getting up at 5am but its so worth it because i just love running and i love seeing these girls and i know by the end of the season i'll be a fast girl too. i hope by next season i'll be down to at least a 20 minute 5k and my goal for this year is 24. i know thats still slow but its all good! man, im nervous about our first meet. so, yeah. that's whats goin on in florida, saturday is our day off so im pretty excited about friday night...but im DEF not gonna be drinkin no nasty key ice.
isn't it sad that most people that are in high school are doing what people in college do? it should be fresh/soph. year is high school and jr/sr year is college! lol
Drinking in High School vs. Drinking in College
High School: Start by 7 p.m., Stop by 10 p.m., Sober by 11:30 p.m., Home by 12 p.m...., No Hangover Next Morning
College: Start by 11 p.m., Stop by 5 a.m., Never Sober Up, Never Make it Home, Hungover Until 5 p.m. Next Afternoon (every good time has its price)
High School: Zimas and Wine Coolers
College: Beer and Cheap Beer
High School: drunk after 2 beers
College: still going after 20 beers
High School Party Attire: new shirt, new black pants, heels
College Party Attire: tshirt/sweatshirt, jeans/sweats, flip flops/tennis shoes
High School: go out 1-2 times a week
College: go out 7-8 times a week
High School: party in a field or a house where parents are out of town
College: party in a dorm, fraternity house, or house where the owner is the drunkest person there
High School: no keg
College: keg stand
High School: pretend to be drunk in order to fit in with the rest of the party
College: pretend to be sober so that when you trip and fall/say something stupid/slur your words/dance like an idiot, you won't be known as "The Drunkass"
High School: rarely go out on school nights
College: always go out on school nights, especially when you have a test the next day
High School: drink to the sound of the car stereo or tiny boombox
College: drink to the sound of a DJ or live band
High School: throwing up is completely unexceptable
College: the more you barf, the cooler you are, especially if you can master the Puke & Rally
High School: 5 shots and the night is over
College: 5 shots at the pre-party and the night has just begun
High School: stroll into the party carrying a beer
College: stroll into the party carrying a 30 pack
High School, day after party: jump out of bed, declare "I feel great!" and smile as you remember the night before
College, day after party: groan and roll over to check out whose lying next to you, declare "I think I'm still drunk," and pass back out after unsuccessfully trying to remember the night before
High School: "Let's play a drinking game! I have cards!!!"
College: "Let's play a drinking game! It's called '1...2...3...CHUG'"
High School: "Shit! It's 2:00 a.m. and I just got home...waaaaaaay past curfew."
College: "Shit! It's 2:00 a.m. and I just ran out of beer...and all beer stores are now closed."
High School: save allowance/lunch money to pay for alcohol
College: sell back books/donate plasma/sell belongings on Ebay to pay for alcohol
1. You can only say yes or no. <-- man I have a LOT of "yes" answers!!!!! 2. You are not allowed to explain anything unless someone asks.
Taken a picture naked? Yes Made out with a member of the same sex? yes Danced in front of your mirror? yes Told a lie? yes Gotten in a car with people you just met? yes Been in a fist fight? Yes Had feelings for someone who didn't have them back? yes Been arrested? almost yes Left your house without telling your parents? Yes Ditched school to do something more fun? yes Slept in a bed with a member of the same sex? Yes Seen someone die? no Kissed a picture? yes Slept in until 3? YES Love someone or miss someone right now? yes Laid on your back and watched cloud shapes go by? yes Played dress up? yes Fallen asleep at work/school? yes Felt an earthquake? no Touched a snake? Yes Run a red light? yes Had detention? Yes Been in a car accident? yes Pole danced? Yes Been lost? yes Sung karaoke? Yes Done something you told yourself you wouldn't? yes Laughed until something you were drinking came out your nose? yes Caught a snowflake on your tongue? yes Kissed in the rain? no :-( Sung in the shower? yes Got your tongue stuck to a pole? yes Ever gone to school partially naked? no Sat on a roof top? Yes Played chicken? Yes Been pushed into a pool with all your clothes on? Yes Gone skinny-dipping? Yes Been told you're hot by a complete stranger? yep Broken a bone? no Mooned/flashed someone? Yes Forgotten someone's name? yes Slept naked? yes Blacked out from drinking? yes Played a prank on someone? yes Felt like killing someone? yes Made a parent cry? Yes Cried over someone? yes Had sex more than 2 times in one day? yes Had sex more than 5 times in one day? yes Had sex more than 10 times in one day? Yes Had/Have a dog? no Been in a band? yes Drank 25 sodas in a day? no Shot a gun? yes Given a lap dance? Yes Gotten a lap dance? YES
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