I ended up in Farley's Coffee for half an hour or so last night and got beat over the head and heart with a strong sense of deja vu. It resonated from somewhen a decade or more ago.... but a search through older memories, particularly the ones from when I used to cut class and go wandering turned up nothing.

Such a strong sense of... something... not home or kinship, or even belonging... but safe space for some aspect or similar self.

From: [identity profile] dymaxion.livejournal.com


Mmm. I spend a lot of time in coffee shops, when I'm traveling a lot, because even a strange coffee shop, if it's not a chain, feels a lot more like home than even nice hotels. For me, they're spaces where I can be me without having to think about whether I'm going to annoy the waiter or look bad in front of clients, spaces where I can think about art and design as well as the day job, and spaces where I can peoplewatch and listen, which isn't a substitute for having a social life, but which helps.

From: [identity profile] blue-estro.livejournal.com


It is good that cafes can provide that. For me they generally don't. The closest experience of home I get outside of places that aren't clearly my own developed variants of home (the bookstores I have been going to forever, a favorite pocket of a park, friend's shops and kitchens, etc.) tend to be buildings that have housed old theaters.

That being said, I don't think my resonating with this place was the same kinda thing. It was surprisingly forceful, and not "a home" so much as "this place has positive emotional relevance". And I don't even have a sense that the contentment and security was strictly mine. I've been trying to figure out the odd interaction with a cafe I am pretty sure I have never been to since last night. <sigh>

From: [identity profile] dymaxion.livejournal.com


Hrm... Yeah, I guess I've spent enough time traveling, especially lately, that home has become necessarily more fragmented... I'll take it where I can find it. :-)

It's wonderful that a space can provide that kind of feeling, even if it was circumstantial or a case of unintentional cross-reference.

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Strange to have that sense of deju vu and home away from somewhere you know well. Sometimes I dream and only remember what happened in the dream when I am in the place that the dream was set... and have that strange deja vu feeling. Maybe something has or will happen there that will have an impact of your life.

Also, being away from anything familiar for almost a year now, feeling home is a loose term. The general atmosphere in the Shipyard on a saturday afternoon has that homely feeling to me.

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Odd, but if you're gonna get hit with a dose of woo, that's not a bad one to get.

And Farley's, if it's the place I'm thinking of, is a good place. I've spent scraps of time there, sitting and writing and having cocoa when I'm out visiting a friend who lives nearby.
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