Public posts versus friends locked
Originally posted March 9, 2006 - Reposted with a new date so it'll appear at the top of my LJ page for anyone who comes looking.
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This will be the last public post you all see from me for a while, I'm going to start friends locking posts, so if you read my journal and are not on my friends list and want to keep reading it, and I know you, you should friend me and let me know.
I know that even friends locked posts aren't *private* as long it's on the internet, but there is that illusion of privacy.
I really didn't want to have to go friend's only, I had been hoping I wouldn't have to, but I am getting rather annoyed at random people reading my journal and commenting with comments intended to start drama. There is already too much drama on livejournal, I do not want to contribute to it.
I am also not going to be posting much in the line of personal stuff in the future so you wont be missing much anyway. I had started to open up to people about things in my personal life, but things have somewhat backfired on me and well, I think I'll go back to being a private person and pretty much keeping my opinions and life to myself again.
I may occasionally post a meme or photo publicly, but it will be nothing personal.
Just so you know, I tend to only friend back people I know personally or who I know through someone else's LJ, due to previous abuse. So if you friend me and I don't friend you back right away, don't feel slighted.
ETA: I will also check out a your LJ before friending you. I will read several entries back to find out a little about you. If you can't be bothered to use proper spelling, grammar, punctuation and capitalization in your LJ, then I can't be bothered to read it. (I do cut slack for those whose primary language is not English.) My spelling, grammar, etc, may not be perfect, but I try to write intelligently. I will not friend someone who uses a lot of abbreviated text speak, I find it difficult to read and will not read nor respond to posts or comments written that way.
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This will be the last public post you all see from me for a while, I'm going to start friends locking posts, so if you read my journal and are not on my friends list and want to keep reading it, and I know you, you should friend me and let me know.
I know that even friends locked posts aren't *private* as long it's on the internet, but there is that illusion of privacy.
I really didn't want to have to go friend's only, I had been hoping I wouldn't have to, but I am getting rather annoyed at random people reading my journal and commenting with comments intended to start drama. There is already too much drama on livejournal, I do not want to contribute to it.
I am also not going to be posting much in the line of personal stuff in the future so you wont be missing much anyway. I had started to open up to people about things in my personal life, but things have somewhat backfired on me and well, I think I'll go back to being a private person and pretty much keeping my opinions and life to myself again.
I may occasionally post a meme or photo publicly, but it will be nothing personal.
Just so you know, I tend to only friend back people I know personally or who I know through someone else's LJ, due to previous abuse. So if you friend me and I don't friend you back right away, don't feel slighted.
ETA: I will also check out a your LJ before friending you. I will read several entries back to find out a little about you. If you can't be bothered to use proper spelling, grammar, punctuation and capitalization in your LJ, then I can't be bothered to read it. (I do cut slack for those whose primary language is not English.) My spelling, grammar, etc, may not be perfect, but I try to write intelligently. I will not friend someone who uses a lot of abbreviated text speak, I find it difficult to read and will not read nor respond to posts or comments written that way.
annoyed