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Alberto Barrago
Alberto Barrago

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Level Up Your Rejection Game: It's Not Failing, It's Just Not Folding

Look, we all know the drill. Rejections sting. Especially when you've poured your heart and soul into something, whether it's landing that dream dev gig or chasing any other passion. And for those of us in the tech world, let's be real, it can feel like a constant barrage sometimes. From the very beginning of this journey, years ago for me, it's been a rollercoaster of "yeses" and a whole lot of "not quite."

But here's the straight-up truth: getting rejected isn't failing. Not ever. And this isn't just tech talk. Whether it's job interviews, creative pursuits, or anything you care deeply about, those "no's" are just part of the process. The real failure? Giving up. Letting those setbacks crush your spirit and silence your drive.

Every attempt, every interview, every submission – it's all data. You learn, you adapt, you get tougher. Sometimes it's about the fit, sometimes it's just luck of the draw. It doesn't diminish your worth or your talent.

So, yeah, I've faced a mountain of rejections since day one. And you know what? It hasn't stopped me. It's fueled me. It's made me stronger. So the next time that "thanks, but no thanks" lands, remember this: keep going. Keep pushing. The only way to truly fail is to stop trying.

🚀 Now go out there and make it happen!

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JP

Is it too off to say this resembles a roguelite game? Haha

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Alberto Barrago

ehhehe no no indeed, in some ways we can also think of Ultima Online, but you can't activate the GUI 😁

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Michael Liang

Nice post