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Just someone else panicking

@coldpapernightmare

let me just jump on the pile. A cis female 30 something also on Pillowfort under the same name

Pinned

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due to recent misunderstandings on a certain post.

I have been on this hellsite longer than tik-tok has existed

I as a person predate google and youtube

if you ever see me seemingly "censoring" a cussword on a post or comment it is either for humorous effect or because auto-correct got my ass

firm believer you can't be a ''good person''. too much niuance to life.

you can be good (adjective) but you cannot be good (identity)

if you think you are good (identity) you are more likely to cause harm as you don't consider yourself to be capable of it

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That's a good distinction.

I think it also works with other "positive" traits.

  • You can be nice (adjective), but "nice" people tend to be too afraid of offending anyone to step up when needed.
  • You can be honest (adjective), but people who make being "honest" a part of their personality use it as excuse to be blunt (at best) or downright rude
  • You can be smart (adjective), but those who view themselves as "smart" (identity) tend to look down on others who don't know the same things as them
  • You can be brave (adjective), but "brave" (identity) people are often reckless

Basically, if you pin your self-worth and identity on a single/few specific traits, you're more likely to embody the negative aspects

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y'all need to relearn the word erratic and stop using schizophrenic/bipolar/psychotic as a replacement

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y'all need to relearn the word particular and stop using ocd as a replacement

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People need to relearn the word "egocentric" and stop using narcissist/narc as a replacement.

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People need to relearn the word "impulse" and stop using "intrusive thought" as a replacement

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People need to relearn the word "callous" and stop using "sociopathic" as a replacement

LOLLLLLLLLLL

The rest of us who already knew this shit seeing data back it up are SO VALIDATED rn

Bad day for some russian troll's quota.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internet_Research_Agency

Russia plays all sides, so watch out for that. Here's some of their past work:

Has anybody else noticed the posts on here lately like

I just found this searching #dropout:

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Happy Indigenous Peoples Day

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Reminder that blood quantum laws were imposed so governments could cheat treaties and not pay what they owe.

Let indigenous peoples decide who is and isn't a member of their tribe.

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I don't know how Terry managed it. There's just nothing on this earth like a Discworld book. I'll be listening to a book I've read countless times over and suddenly, a single line I've never even really noticed before will tear me open. They just reach right inside me and open my ribcage to expose my very heart.

Tonight, it was Hat Full of Sky and Granny Weatherwax saying, "The world is unfair. Be grateful you have friends." On their own, the words are unremarkable. But juxtaposed together, with the context they are operating in....they had tears flowing down my face before I knew what was happening. The world is unfair; sometimes, the wonderful happens when it shouldn't (and/or when you feel you deserve a divinely wrathful torment) because you have friends. The world is unfair. That doesn't just mean that the horrible happens when it shouldn't. It means that the beautiful does too. Be grateful you have friends. They are the hub on which that beauty spins, turning the theft into gold.

A lot of people I've introduced to these books haven't liked them — they find them too silly, or preachy, or nonsensical, or even puerile. I am never upset or really disappointed when they don't like them. To each their own. But I will never understand it. They are baked into my being in a way that few things are and I am better to myself, to other people, and to the world because of it.

Sir Terry, you were a gift nonpareil. Thank you for your words and for shaping my world.

Discworld Heritage Post

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Thank you for writing this so much more clearly than I ever could. Terry Pratchett's books are a reflection on our own society but wrapped up in hilarious observational humour that means they don't feel preachy.

Few authors have made me laugh out loud so frequently and freely.

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why did noah wyle decide dr robby should experience homophobia is the question many are asking

Probably because Jewish masculinity is marginalized by the dominant culture generally, Jewish men are stereotyped as effeminate, and straight men who are perceived as effeminate are targets of homophobia.

Also, please consider that knowing he's been in relationships with women doesn't mean he's straight, it only means he's been in relationships with women, and bi/pan/queer men are also homophobia targets.

We tried to warn you about the "adult content" bans. Now Kickstarter is starting that shit

"It must have serious value!"

Staight up sounds like obscenity law/Miller Test-type crap.

"Fetishized imagery intended to arouse" well it's a good thing oppressed and vulnerable communities are never fetishized.

I know many of you have already liked and reblogged this post, but I'm going to attach a couple of links for resources on how to contact payment processors and whatnot. Hopefully they can get spread around a bit. It includes how to contact the payment processors, scripts, and various links to other (at the time ongoing, these websites haven't been updated in about 8 months and 1 year respectively) petitions and forms that might be useful to you.

I'd also like to ask people to be willing to bring this conversation into spaces where things like "politics" aren't welcome and more forcefully draw attention to the ever growing issue of censorship. Some of you may only have those communities to draw on but we've long since run out of peaceful/polite/non-disruptive options.

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apparently I'm still logged into the work account 3 years after leaving this company

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so for my final note, from the bottom of my heart, I just wanna get dicked down again =/

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Day 180 since Craig moved in. he clearly thinks he’s dating one of us but we can’t figure out who. it’s possible one of us is lying about it for some reason but so far our efforts at inquisition has led nowhere. we would kick him out but he’s been doing the dishes for us. we’ve decided that for the sanity of the polycule we’ll keep up the charade. if all of us continue to be flirty with him, he’ll project his attraction onto whoever the hell he thinks is into him. this house of cards is delicate but necessary

It got funnier

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This is how cats domesticated themselves

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Biggest fuck-up ever is that people have to pay to become doctors

Like unironically we should be subsidising at least 50% of their educations. What do you mean we have a shortage of doctors we should have surplus. What do you mean they’re being overworked they should be treated like royalty, they can fix human bodies

I don’t care if some of them are only doing it for the money. I don’t care if all of them are only doing it for the money. Intentions don’t matter to the stitches in my nana’s leg or the ten billion other lifesaving treatments we all get at a detriment to their finances and mental wellbeing. Entire cities are kept alive by just a couple thousand of them what are we DOINGGGGG

Everyone wants to live forever Everyone but the ones living for work Anyone who can pay won't pay for anything Anyone who can't pay is buried in dirt Who wants a healer to tend to their bruises? Who wants a medic to stitch up their wounds? Who will pay anyone, anyone ever? To keep the mill churning out dollars for fools