ok so this thing that pat dated like 11 or so years ago is fucking pissing me off. they dated like a week and me and pat when we first got together told each other about all our exs and shit (mind you this was like 7 years ago we did this) well he never mentioned this girl she literally slipped his mind since they didnt really "date" that long. Well anyways he remained friends with her for about a year or 2 after they dated then pretty much lost touch cuz life happens. Well last year she found him online and they started talking every once in awhile and became kinda of friends (if you want to put it that way) anyways pats best friend jill and this girl have been friends for years so when jill came down here from stl to visit us this girl tagged along and stayed the night with us. Nothing wierd just normal friends over visiting. Pat had to work the next day so i took her and jill out shopping before they headed back to stl. well since that day the fucking woman has become like obessed with us or something. stalking us online basically. I dont know wtf her deal is if shes like in love with pat or wtf. she added me and pat on both facebook and myspace, and added us both to yahoo. completely annoys the fuck out of us with 23425 million messages the second we sign online (thank god yahoo has an ignore button lol). She's constantly messaging me asking about everything from what i do everyday and about me and pat's relationship about our kids about my life period. It started freaking me out. ive met this girl one time and since that day shes constantly bombarded me with ims, offline messages on fb and myspace as well as calling me all the time. I try to be nice since shes a friend of pats and all and thats just the kind of person i am. well the past few months shes been adding ALL and i mean ALL of pat's family to her facebook im thinking wtf is going on right. she talks to his mom daily and messages his brother and both of his aunts. Well the other day she posted a message on chris's wall (thats pats brother) saying that she thought the new baby was cute or whatever. Well chris doesnt even know who this girl is hes never met her or anything. well i finally confronted her yesterday and told her off and told her to stop stalking pat and his family and she's not gonna get pat he doesnt like her and in fact she's creeping him out. Well chris said that his mom was saying how this girl kept asking her mom if she could come over and hang out with her or go shopping and stuff like that (yeah creepy i know) well i asked her wtf her problem was and why on earth is she doing this and acting like shes part of the family and she said "oh ive known pats family for almost 20 years" i showed what she typed to pat and his jaw dropped he was like "She met my mom and dad like 2 or 3 times when we were younger" she doesnt live near them or work with anyone or have kept in contact with them in 11 years but she finds them on facebook and adds them and talks to them and says she's known them forever. well after i went completely off on her and told her to stop living in psycho land and her little dream world isnt real and she needs to re-evalute things she messaged me today and was all like im sorry im sorry i want to be friends with you, you are one of the coolest people i know and you are so different and i like that about you blah blah blah and im like What the fucking fuck!! why on earth are you imming me and telling me you're sorry and want to be my friend?!!? god all fucking mighty. its bad enough in her fantasy land she's pats best friend or wife or whatever the fuck goes on in her head but now shes all trying to be my best friend and shit? this woman has some fucking issues! and she like in love with pat and i dunno if shes in this stalkerish state of wanting to be me and be with pat or wtf her deal is, but its getting very fucking twisted and she needs to get some help. Pat's brother deleted and blocked her cuz she wouldnt leave him alone and now both of his aunts ignore her when she ims them and his mom told pat today that the girl is creeping her out too and she's wondering if she should just delete her, she said she's been ignoring her when she ims her the past week. So if i go missing or turn up dead somewhere this bitch is top of the suspect list! the thing is i dont know what to do i cant call the cops she hasnt threatened us or anything and she tries to be nice to me and pat and his family and i kind of feel sorry for her cuz shes not a very good looking girl and shes got a daughter and shes got a "boyfriend" that shes been with for like 9 years that refuses to marry her so i dunno wtf to do. i know shes crazy but being me i still feel bad, but at the same time i want to punch her face in.
ok so this morning my 4 year old asked me , "mommy lets go to disney world" i told him we can right now hunny we dont have the money to take the trip right now. he goes" well just go to the bank and get money" boy if it were only that simple LOL. gotta love it.
ok we are remodeling our other bathroom (aka the kid's bathroom) and omg its such a freaking pain in the ass. we are wanting to get our whole house eventually remodeled and decided to work one room at a time so hopefully by next year we'll have the whole place done. we started with our room, then elijah and carter's room, then austin's room and now thier bathroom. well its such a pain since we have shit sitting out like we had our new toilet (in the boxes mind you) sitting in the hallway for like a week before we could finish the drywall and painting. well today we put the new vanity and sink in we took the other vanity outside and my cousin hauled it to the dump but my dumbass hubby (i love you pat lol) didnt put the sink in the truck instead it is currently sitting in the hallway. UGH, so naturally being me i fucking stub my toe on it!! those sons of bitches are heavy! anyways after i thought i broke my toe and yelled at pat for leaving it in the hallway he finally puts it in the bathroom on the floor for the time being. Now all thats left is to put down the new tile on the floor, finish painting the other wall and put in the shelves of the linen closet. I figure we'll have it done by friday.
im happy in my panties right now cuz earlier today the UPS man brought me my new lolita skirt =) ... (whoho) in other news... I was giving carter and elijah a bath earlier and i got them out of the tub and drying them off and when they were dry i was going to put baby powder on them and i grabbed the powder off the top of the medicine cabinet (if you have kids you know why its there lol) and it slipped out of my hand and hit the floor i mean powder EVERYWHERE! it was like a bomb went off.. you couldnt even breathe anything but powder dust.. i mean im all for looking pale and ghostlike but i literally was white!!
my wedding dress (well second dress cuz i decided i didnt like the one i bought last year now) should be here soon =) cant wait! its super awesome. the only thing i have left to get for the wedding is just a few odd and end decorations i want for the reception. I couldnt find any invitations i liked anywhere (even those print your owns were fugly) so im just gonna print mine out the way i want them and decorate and send them out myself. i bought a stack of black envelopes and a wax seal kit at hobby lobby. i have a kick ass pendant im using for the wax seal (i know you generally use a ring but i dont care). I found the perfect blood red flowers for the candlebras too. this really awesome florist in camdenton actually knew what i was talking about and set me up =) her name is jeanie i would definately recommend her to anyone! since the area is standing room only for the ceremony we are thinking about getting a red isle runner to use as the "isle" itself to walk down. not sure yet but any feedback on that idea would be great. thats all for now.
my little austinbox is feeling so much better today. hes talking alot more and he ate pretty good today without his little throat killing him. hopefully tomorrow it'll be even better and not so sore. Elijah was so happy austin was talking normal again he ran up and gave austin a big hug and goes "im so glad you are all better" .. aww my babies =) I told austin if he feels ok tomorrow and wants to get out ill take him out and let him get a new video game (that was the deal we bribed him with lol if he rested and got better for having to have his tonsils out we would get him a new game). Elijah and carter have been so good and know how austin doesnt feel very good so they've pretty much left him alone instead of jumping and playing and doing the normal boy thing. the school called me today and said they finally got all his homework for the week together (i told them last month that austin was going to be out for surgery and so they knew ahead of time and when i called again monday to ask if they could get his homework for the week together they said they would.. took them until today to get it all together i guess.) I went to pick it up and all the kids in austins grade made little "get better" cards for him . too sweet =) he was happy for that. I hate seeing my babies not feel good so now that hes feeling 100 times better that makes me feel alot better.
