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I host a Sex/Relationship/Medical Advice Radio Show Mondays from 8-9pm EST.  "Intercoursing" provides a doctor or nurse from the Sydney Borum Health Center in Downtown Boston every week that answers questions or provides advice for a situation you might be dealing with.  I'm always there as well, representing the 20 something college student.  The whole show is basically Loveline with a college co-host.

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I made an add me community for people who have loved ones in the military. Feel free to join!

I'm Amanda and My boyfriend's name is Guillermo. We've been going out for 8 months and i've never been happier. I'm so lucky to have found love at such a young age. I'm 15 and i know i might seem to young to be so serious but i love Guillermo. Well thats pretty much what i have to say

Just found the community.
Just thought I'd share my fiance/love of my life/best guy...ever...with you guys.=)
We've been together almost 9 months.He proposed at prom.He makes me so happy.We fight,but...everyone does that.He's wonderful.♥

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A new project "Kissing garden" has been launched: very beautiful, nice
music, strong positive energy.

In the Garden fruit grow and get ripe not with the sun but with kisses.

Hey everyone I am new here. I was just looking at all the comuniitys and found this one! I am so happy there is a place I can go and talk about my realationship. My name is Victoria and and my boyfriends name is Matt. We are coming up on our 7 month anniversary. I am so happy with him i can teven belive it sometimes. Liike I meet him at a friends birthday party and he asked me for my number, and we have been together ever since!!!

Happy 6 years, hon! ^^

We're currently in the first of (hopefully no more than) three years of long distance, so we won't be doing anything together to celebrate.  Instead of elaborating on what we're getting each other, I will give some details on what happened 6 years ago to those who have not read/don't remember my intro post. (Heck, I don't even remember my own intro post. :P) Granted, I don't think our story is one of those "awww... so romantic!" type of stories -- kinda nerdy actually -- but it works for me... :)

(I wanted to do an LJ cut but I'm an idiot... sorry that this is long.)

So I came upon Charleston's name about 7 years ago -- in one of those award cerenomy things back in high school.  (I was finishing up my freshman year at the time, and he was a junior.)  I noticed him because he was the only person other than me to receive two awards; but since he missed the rehearsal, he ended up making the teachers walked back and forth to award him twice as opposed to how I sneaked into two difference places in the line so to not create chaos.  So I slightly resented the fact that he got more "glory" than I... And then the club that we were in together, promoted him to be president and me, the vp.  (He told me later that he pretty much handpicked me -- apparently he noticed me when I was merely a 6th grader!  I don't think he necessarily liked me at the time, but he did think I was cute. :p)  So during the summer, he sent out an introductory email to me and the other future officers: "Hi, my GPA is ___, my SAT score is ____..." And I was thinking, "Geez, what an arrogant prick!" (Well I didn't really think "prick" but whatever.)  And then we started working together a lot for the club, and at some point when he actually returned a joke unexpectedly, I started talking to him a lot. (Humor is extremely important to me!) 

At the same time that our friendship grew, my ex also asked me out.  I've known the ex for a little longer than I knew my bf at the time, and I've never been in a relationship, so I thought I'd just go for it.  During the 3 months that I was with my ex, we might have seen each other for a total of... 30 minutes?   Even at the time, I think I clicked more with Charleston but I didn't think much of it.  Somewhere in the middle of that 3 months, Charleston told me that he liked me, but it might be a bad idea for him to ask me out since he was almost graduating.  I didn't think I should ditch the ex for him, so I just rejected Charleston and we continued to be good friends.  But the relationship with the ex eventually became such an emotional burden, and what with school work and a pressing exam and all, I broke it off so to concentrate on this exam for a month.  The day after my exam, Charleston and I were talking on the phone as usual (by this time spending time with him was quite natural) and he asked me out.  I guess it was more like making it "official" since our friends thought we've been so close that it was like we've been seeing each other anyway. 

Earlier tonight when we were talking on the phone, I brought up how he asked me out six years ago.  And while I thought it was really natural that we got together since we've been such best friends and been so comfortable with each other, and that we got together one day after my pressing exam was completely accidental, he told me he actually planned it that way!  He said even though he got rejected and was forced to be just friends for a few months, he knew that I was quite stressed about the exam so he purposely waited till after the exam to ask again.  It probably doesn't mean much to you, but it sounded sweet to my ear...*blush* *big grin*

I'll see him in less than a month, and we're going to Vegas and other places together this summer! I can hardly wait.... :)

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I'm new here. I was just surfing through different livejournal communities and stumbled upon this one. Immediately I thought, "Hey, I'm in a perfect relationship. Now I can have somewhere to share that without people thinking I'm being too oooshy gooshy." So here I am. I guess I should say a little something about myself, right? Well my name is Lauren and the lucky guy is my boyfriend, Colin :D We've only been dating for around 2 months now but this is the most love I've ever had in a relationship before. From the beginning of the school year he had a crush on me and I was unaware. At the same time, I really liked him but didn't have the guts to say a thing. Now after having hung out for 6 months of period 3 art class together, we have started dating. He's such a wonderful guy. The kind who opens doors for you, compliments you eveyday [no matter what you look like-- cryptkeeper or dirty hair...], he's that kind of guy that you can just tell is sincere when he tells you he loves you. I can see it in his eyes. His face light up everytime I walk into the room. I love him so much. Just thought you may like to know :D



That's him ♥

pdate from the road:

Friday: Woke up at 5:30 a.m. and prepared for my trip. Client meetings until 10:30 am. Picked up carpool and cleared the distance between San Jose and Los Angeles in five hours. Went to boffo's Movie Night, where the consequences of my sleep deficit caught up with me and I promptly dropped into a dreamless sleep on his floor. Apparently, my sleeping form was a source of some amusement for the conscious guests. Drove to browascension & lightling's place and crashed.

Saturday: Met up with Aviad "50 Shekel, the World's Most Kosher MC" Cohen for sushi, photography/music related dialogue, and other mischief.

Our meandering through Los Angeles took us to The Standard, a nexus of the terminally hip and neck-snappingly beautiful denizens/visitors of Hollywood. Even in this rarified world of absurdly attractive people, one woman sitting alone working on a Sudoku puzzle stood out ... a jaw-droppingly attractive Latina mestiza that can drive even relatively extroverted people like me to intimidated silence.

I've often wondered about that intimidation factor - perhaps it's an outgrowth of the unspoken understanding between men of the pecking order; we know women of a certain level of beauty are courted and approached by richer, more powerful, more charismatic, better (in every objectively measurable sense) men than us, and we are as out of our league in that elite company.

Objectively, this fear makes no sense - even if one's chances that initiating a conversation will lead anywhere is less than 1%, it costs you nothing and represents a free call-option on a highly-desirable potential hookup/girlfriend/whatever.

All that said (and though economists would have you believe otherwise), we humans do not make decisions based on cooly-reasoned Expected Value calculations, and while I maneuvered myself to be seated next to the girl and work up my nerve to speak with her, I felt the thunder of my pulse pounding its staccato percussion into my skull. Ba-DUM, ba-DUM, ba-DUM, ba-DUM.

My exchange with Avi was distracted, distanced, while I steadied myself to overcome deeply-wired Beta-Male timidity and open up a conversation with the Latina. A twist of phrase, a turn of words, and in a curious reversal, she turned to us to comment on something in our dialogue and join our talk. My inner Beta Male heaved a sigh of relief as two became three, our conversation easing into comfortable territory of introductions and lighthearted banter.

Avi, to his credit, played his Wingman role perfectly - self-effacing, cerebral and complimentary to my extroverted, high-energy self. It was here we learned that the Latina ("J") is going to be a Playboy Playmate in an upcoming issue, and was waiting a few hours for a cab to take her to Hugh Hefner's 80th Birthday Party later on that evening. (!!!)

Ba-DUM, ba-DUM, ba-DUM, ba-DUM.

The invitation card she showed me was as elaborate as you can imagine, and nearly impossible to forge. We talk ... about her time as an Air Force radar operator (!!!), the radiology career she's pursuing, Hollywood culture. Experience suggests that beauty is typically inversely correlated to ambition and intelligence, but she's obliterated that stereotype quickly and an hour of elapsed dialogue stretches into a second.

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