The Illustrious Advice Guru

Dear Manda,

I hate my boyfriends best friend for so many reasons. It ranges from being a blatant chauvinist to telling me he thinks my friends are ugly and "don't do anything (career wise) for him". I have always tried hard to be The Good Girlfriend and be supportive of his friend relationships - regardless of whether or not I like the person.

Recently, I've come to the conclusion that this friend does anything within his ability to alienate and sabotage my relationship. I'm tired of "rising above it" and turning a blind eye but have no idea what I should do about the situation. I don't want to turn into a "It's him or me" girl but I really don't want to put up with this assholes bullshit anymore.

Everytime I discuss this with my guy, he feels like I'm trying to pick his friends.

It feels like the impossible situation

PS. I picked this community soley because of the name Manda.
PPSS. You seriously need to pick another mod to promote this place and erase all those fucking "Can you make me an Icon?" and "How do I get an LJ?!" crap posts.

My grandmother was born in Mexico. She was a Mexican citizen and she lived in Mexico for awhile. Later she lived in Bolivia and ended up in South West America later. She spoke Spanish fluently and would partake in Spanish cultures, etc. Keeping all this in mind, her parents were European meaning she was Caucasian but a Mexican American.

My question is, when filling out a college application, would it be justifiable to put on a college application that the "racial and ethnic groups I include myself in" are both Caucasian AND Mexican American?

im_useless_

Hi. I'm new to this community & I really need some advice. First off, I'm 17 & I dont have many friends. 3 years ago I messed around online & made up a life. I became very close to this one girl & still am. Well, she's been wanting to meet me for the longest & somehow I've managed to get out of it. The guilt, of course, has eaten at me until I'm at the point I am. I'm ready to kill myself. I'm not sure what I should do. I feel I have no one to talk to about this. I don't want anyone to find out because I regret it terribly. We are still close but I'm tired of all this. I just want to live my normal life. As much as I want to be close to her just as me I kno it isn't possible. I feel trapped & I'm about to end my life over this. Can anyone give me any advice? I would prefer if it's 100% negative then to just not reply. Can you help?

Thank you for your time.

hey could sumone make an icon for me please?
image:
wording: in CHERI font, pick the size you think is right, in right hand corner, "**seduce us**", of course without the ", with the **, if it can be flashing that would be great

hi i kno im asking a lot...but if sumone could make me this icon it would be awesome..its a lot..
its a normal sized icon that would have these images flashing *but not too fast please, not too slow either you judge*
















thanx so much! i kno its a lot but thanx!

hi can sumone please make me a christmas icon
that has these two images flashing not too fast just back in forth
first image:

second image:

body {
background-image:url
}



is ^this rite for adding a background to my livejournal cuz its not working!? can sumone help me

can someone heLp me ... if i change to the newer styLe of the journaL *S2* can i stiLL change "post a comment" to whatever i want it to say ? hope this isnt to much of a confusing question...
old style journaL there was a pLace for me to type and change aLL that stuff *it was a box that said this is not a journaL*
where do i do that with the newer style journaL

i wouLd type aLL of this below:
FRIENDS_TALK_LINKS<=

(%%readlink%% ¨*¨rEvEaL YoUr§eLf¨*¨)

<=FRIENDS_TALK_LINKS

FRIENDS_TALK_READLINK=>%%messagecount%%¨*¨bArEd §OuL¨*¨%%mc-plural-s%% |

LASTN_TALK_READLINK=>%%messagecount%% ¨*¨bArEd §OuL¨*¨%%mc-plural-s%% |

DAY_TALK_LINKS<=

(%%readlink%%¨*¨bArEd §OuL¨*¨ )

<=DAY_TALK_LINKS

GLOBAL_HEAD<=

.·:*¨¨*:·.*W e L C o M E 2 K R i § T i N A ' § J o U R n A L.·:*¨¨*:·.*
</style>
<=GLOBAL_HEAD

LASTN_OPT_ITEMS=>30

LASTN_TALK_LINKS<=

(%%readlink%%¨*¨rEvEaL YoUr§eLf¨*¨ )

<=LASTN_TALK_LINKS

DAY_TALK_READLINK=>%%messagecount%%¨*¨bArEd §OuL¨*¨%%mc-plural-s%% |

how do i downLoad a LivejournaL? sorry im computer stupid

hey kristina here uhh i was wondering how do u get a friends onLy journaL does it come with a paid account or can i get it being a free user...i wouLd Like one ...if someone couLd respond back to me that wouLd be awesome ok Later