Date: 2026-07-03 11:46 am (UTC)
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4. You mean they don't know?

Try asking our present government...........

Date: 2026-07-03 10:36 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] bens_dad
You think our government has a clue about this ?

Date: 2026-07-03 12:26 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] channelpenguin
3. Oh my. That bit about kids being younger, prettier and happier versions of self+partner. Myself as a kid was one out of the 3... One of the many reasons I didn't have any kids myself. From my teenage years, when asked why I didn't want kids, one of my standard answers was "because there's a good chance they'd be like me".

Date: 2026-07-05 07:25 am (UTC)
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No clue. But I suspect maybe it would have made no difference. I just wanted(want) to do too many things and do them extremely well and I'm not actually as equipped (innate plus learned) for that as people who actually succeed at that.

Obviously, I'm also rigged/learned to experience satisfaction at achievement, and curiosity plus satisfaction with knowledge/understanding but I don't think I actually have any clue what "happiness" is or feels like. There seems to be a different thing that others experience and call "happiness" and I absolutely don't get it.

I recall my mother asking me when I was about 11 or so and having another miserable meltdown,"Can't you just enjoy doing something for the fun of it?". My INSTANT reply was "Where's the fun if you're not good at it?". If anything sums up my personality, that's it.

On consideration - I think I DO do happiness (peaceful satisfaction) but not joy. That's the thing I don't feel. There was a kind that came from transcendent emotionally-connected sex - but THAT eventually led to me wrecking my life (multiple times). So, no, not chased that for a long time now.
Edited Date: 2026-07-05 07:31 am (UTC)

Date: 2026-07-03 04:40 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] gingicat
That guy is actually a pretty consistent parent, and his kids are happy and learning boundaries, seems good to me!

Date: 2026-07-03 11:55 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] cellio

2: Good for him! People need to be open to "not exactly how I would say it"; that's how you learn and grow.

3 - parenting

Date: 2026-07-04 07:02 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] agoodwinsmith
Thank you for that link.

I bet that house sounds a lot like my cousin's house - where there is lots of sound and commotion, but nobody is unhappy. It is a very wonderful (full of wonder) place to visit. I hope your house is like that, too.

8 - Sedation

Date: 2026-07-04 07:52 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] agoodwinsmith
I have three articles to share about the sedation & rape of partners. They are below.

But first I want to say: I don't know a single man that I think would do this. Not cousins (no brothers), not uncles, not friends, not friends of my father. *Maybe* some acquaintances, but probably not.

So who are these guys - and how can there be so many?

https://medium.com/fourth-wave/men-are-spiking-womens-drinks-with-workout-mix-so-they-re-not-too-tired-0a09e24e0a61

https://medium.com/fourth-wave/cnns-rape-academy-story-was-one-site-snopes-spilled-more-c308025f51b0

https://medium.com/fourth-wave/do-good-men-know-they-feel-like-the-minority-not-the-majority-86326e5966a6

Re: 8 - Sedation

Date: 2026-07-05 08:02 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] agoodwinsmith
Read Linda Carol's 28Apr26 more closely.

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