this is relatively old news bc the company was founded in 2020, so i may well just be the last ignorant holdout, but:
i didn’t know abt defector.com until i stumbled across it the other day and was really really pleasantly surprised to discover a publication with a relatively men’s-lifestyle-mag tone where guys were talking with beautiful humanity abt parenting their baby daughter and defending trans people as a matter of course
like people have said before that actually the idea that the entire world outside our tiny beleaguered enclaves has gone full MAGA and hates you is not only really painful to internalize but actually genuinely wrong
but. did you know: it’s not only really painful to internalize but actually! genuinely! wrong!! wild and lovely to learn. <3
Hyman Bloom, 1933
Hyman Bloom (American, 1913-2009), Portrait of Charles A. Parker, 1933
Oil on canvas, 21 x 15 in
D007-01 Cow Tools (after Gary Larson), interlocking crochet
#10 cotton thread (black) and worsted wool yarn, 3.25mm hook
(10x8" / 25x20cm)
People with ovaries that work: do you experience pain when you ovulate?
yes, it sucks so much
yes, it's not a big deal
uhhh maybe?
nope! never.
not applicable, show me the answers














