A Million Moments for Maternal Mortality Prevention: A Conference Addressing Maternal Mortality at the Intersection of Physical and Mental Health, Substance Use, and Intimate Partner Violence.
Kansas 2025
Homicide is the leading cause of death for pregnant and postpartum people in the United States. Research shows that 67 percent of pregnant people who experience domestic violence are physically abused, and 20 percent are abused for the first time during pregnancy. Black and Indigenous women are two to three times more likely to die from pregnancy-related causes, and more than 80 percent of these deaths are preventable.
From the very first session we went beyond surface level conversations and straight to the heart of the matter. We focused on root causes, systemic failures, and pathways to real solutions.
I had the honor of delivering a keynote where together we laughed, cried, and released what we had been holding. We ended in gratitude, and I could feel the audience’s willingness to do this deep and necessary work.
Moderating the panel of lived experts is always a great privileges. Each person spoke with courage about experiences no one should endure such as domestic violence, death of a child, incarceration, homelessness, and child removal. They shared clear recommendations for how providers and systems can respond differently. Their brilliance reminded us that recovery is always possible and community support is essential.
One of our peer experts shared how she once had her own children removed, and now she works to ensure other families are given the chance to stay together. She supported a family that had lost nine children to removal and helped them access the support they needed to keep their tenth child and reunite with the others. Her story is a powerful reminder of what happens when we believe in people and refuse to give up on them.
The breakout sessions were equally powerful. We discussed lactation, shifting from “mandatory reporting” to “mandatory supporting,” and closing the gap between concern and real danger. Each conversation was rooted in keeping families together and ensuring that every parent has a chance to heal and thrive.
I closed the conference with hope and healing centered practices for providers and advocates who give so much of themselves every day. We created space to process, release, and reconnect with the truth that we cannot give others what we do not have. This work requires patience, kindness, empowerment, and hope for ourselves and for others.
I left Kansas filled with gratitude for the brilliant colleagues, friends, and survivors who shared their wisdom and their hearts. This conference was not just an event. It was a reminder of what is possible when we lead with courage, compassion, and community.
Thank you to my Kansas family for the unforgettable journey. May we continue to create spaces where healing, recovery, and love are the expected outcomes.
My dream is to bring this back to Alaska❤️