Off-forum, lhexa asked how gender can be seperated from sexuality in the first place; which took me by surprise, as I have a fairly de-sexualized concept of gender identity.

So, weigh in. Is gender primarily a reproductive-organ (and brain's parsing of reproductive organs) thang? Or not?

Alternatively, am I making a mistake in phrasing the question this way, as opposed to thinking of the /whole body/ as sexual...