Marriages come in a very wide variety: if the reports of anthropologists and historians are to be believed, an extraordinarily wide variety. This includes some of the more unusual forms, including marriage to the dead; to the gods; and even to plants. This does suggest that few proposed marriage relationships would require 'redefining marriage': but on the other hand, it makes giving a general theory of marriage challenging. So one issue we should face is how accepting (...) we should be of the reports: to what extent reported 'marriages' really are marriages. This paper defends the view that almost all of these reported marriages are in fact marriages, and suggests some theoretical approaches that may be generous enough to account for this. (shrink)

Parties to a temporary marriage agree in advance that their marriage will only last for a fixed period of time unless renewed: that it will automatically expire after two years, for instance, or five, or twenty. This paper defends the claim that temporary marriages deserve state recognition. The main argument for this is an application of a principle of marriage equality. Some other arguments for are also canvassed, including an argument from religious freedom, and a number of (...) arguments against recognition are also discussed. The paper also discusses the question of whether such “temporary marriages” are in fact a kind of marriage, and defends the claim that they are, or would be, genuinely marriages. (shrink)

Marriage is often seen as romantic love, but its lasting foundation is friendship. True marital success comes from mutual understanding, equality, respect, and companionship, rather than fleeting passion. This paper emphasizes marriage as friendship, highlighting emotional readiness, absence of drama, equality, and preparation for nurturing future generations. For the new generation, this approach offers a path to meaningful, sustainable partnerships.

This paper examines the tension between love as an internal, autonomous experience and marriage as a socially validated institution. While contemporary society often views marriage as the ultimate proof of love, a historical and phenomenological analysis reveals that marriage was primarily constructed for economic security, social order, and legal predictability. This work argues that the modern compulsion for social recognition and public approval—stemming from family, religion, or law—often distorts the nature of love, transforming it from a spontaneous, (...) free expression into a ritualized dependency. By deconstructing the need for external validation, the paper suggests that love is complete in itself and does not require institutional labels to be authentic. Building upon the framework of "Marriage as lifelong friendship", this inquiry concludes that true relational stability arises not from social conformity, but from an individual's freedom to choose a conscious partnership grounded in mutual presence and emotional maturity rather than the pursuit of social status. (shrink)

The netherworld marriage or the wedding for dead persons is a folk religious ritual in ancientChina. It is based on ancient Chinese folk belief of afterlife in the netherworld. Through a textual research and investigation based on relevant historical records and other ancient documents, as well as some archeological discoveries, this paper tries to give a brief account of the origin and development of netherworld marriage and its cultural and ideological background in ancient China. It finds that netherworld (...) marriage might originate from human sacrifice in early ancient times, and its name varies in different periods. It has gone through its prevailing in the Tang Dynasty, declining in the Song and Yuan Dynasties, and reviving again in the Ming and Qing Dynasties. During the long history, this custom was generally criticized and condemned by orthodoxy Confucian intellectuals, yet it was practiced and sometimes even prevailed among both noble class and common people, due to its deep root in the folk belief. The paper also intends to clarify some misconceptions and misunderstandings concerning the study of this unique cultural phenomenon. (shrink)

Many Western intellectuals, especially those in humanities and social sciences, think that it can be easily shown that the persistent and massive opposition to same-sex marriage is rationally indefensible and that it is merely a result of prejudice or religious fanaticism. But a more detailed analysis of some of these widely accepted arguments against the conservative position reveals that these arguments are in fact based on logical fallacies and serious distortions of conservative criticisms of homosexual marriage. It is (...) concluded that philosophers ought to resist the pressure of political correctness and that they should approach the debate with a more open mind than before. (shrink)

The teachings of Islam and the Indonesian constitution clearly prohibit interfaith marriage. However, some Muslim communities in North Sulawesi as a minority group have entered into interfaith marriages. Therefore, this study aims to analyze the phenomenon of interreligious marriage in North Sulawesi and the achievement of minority fiqh objectives in interfaith families. This research is a field research that uses qualitative methods with a phenomenological approach. Data collection was conducted through interviews with informants consisting of 5 interfaith (...) class='Hi'>marriage actors, 1 village official, and 1 religious leader. The results showed that the main motivation for interfaith couples to marry is mutual love. They also tend to get support from their respective extended families so that the marriage runs relatively smoothly and safely. The objectives of minority fiqh are achieved in interfaith marriages in the multicultural society of North Sulawesi. Minority fiqh can be an approach in interfaith marriages in multicultural societies where Muslims are a minority, without losing their Islamic essence, it is based on the fiqh rule that changes in law can occur due to changes in times and places. Minority jurisprudence can be an alternative basis for the sustainability of interfaith families in North Sulawesi that are able to maintain their Islamic identity while still respecting their partner's beliefs. (shrink)

Citizenship and marriage are legal statuses that generate numerous privileges and responsibilities. Legal doctrine and argument have analogized these statuses in passing: consider, for example, Ted Olson’s statement in the Hollingsworth v. Perry oral argument that denying the label “marriage” to gay unions “is like you were to say you can vote, you can travel, but you may not be a citizen.” However, the parallel between citizenship and marriage has rarely been investigated in depth. This paper investigates (...) the marriage-citizenship parallel with a particular focus on three questions prompted by recent developments in law and policy: -/- 1) Should we provide second-best statuses? Some couples — in particular gay and lesbian couples — have been offered permanent statuses, like civil unions, that bear legal privileges but fall short of full marriage equality. In contrast, similar differentiations within citizenship are generally resisted. The history of citizenship may presage the increasing unacceptability of differentiations within status in the gay marriage context. Meanwhile, the history of marriage equality efforts may help present-day citizenship advocates choose legal strategies. -/- 2) Should statuses be a gateway to rights? Some early gay rights advocates unsuccessfully argued that advocates should challenge the primacy of marriage, rather than seek access to the institution. Advocates attempting to expand the rights of current noncitizens face similar choices: should they seek to give current noncitizens greater access to citizenship, or challenge the reservation of important rights to citizens? -/- 3) Can status relationships be plural? Many critics of dual and multiple citizenship argued that allegiance to multiple states was immoral, unadministrable, or both. More recently, polygamous marriage has become a topic of legal and political discourse, first as a foil in anti-gay marriage arguments and later as a political possibility in its own right. I consider whether polygamous marriage advocates can profitably draw on arguments for multiple citizenship, and how multiple-citizenship advocates should responsibly respond to the analogy with polygamy. (shrink)

Contemporary recognition theory has developed powerful tools for understanding a variety of social problems through the lens of misrecognition. It has, however, paid somewhat less attention to how to conceive of appropriate responses to misrecognition, usually making the tacit assumption that the proper societal response is adequate or proper affirmative recognition. In this paper I argue that, although affirmative recognition is one potential response to misrecognition, it is not the only such response. In particular, I would like to make the (...) case for derecognition in some cases: derecognition, in particular, through the systematic deinstitutionalization or uncoupling of various reinforcing components of social institutions, components whose tight combination in one social institution has led to the misrecognition in the first place. I make the case through the example of recent United States debates over marriage, especially but not only with respect to gay marriage. I argue that the proper response to the misrecognition of sexual minorities embodied in exclusively heterosexual marriage codes is not affirmative recognition of lesbian and gay marriages, but rather the systematic derecognition of legal marriage as currently understood. I also argue that the systematic misrecognition of women that occurs under the contemporary institution of marriage would likewise best be addressed through legal uncoupling of heterogeneous social components embodied in the contemporary social institution of marriage. (shrink)

The provision of a marriage right is a distinctive aspect of Kant ’s political philosophy and seems, initially, difficult to reconcile with the general concern with ensuring external freedom of action apparent in the universal principle of Right and the sole innate right said to follow from this principle. I claim that this provision can be regarded as consistent with this general focus and that Kant ’s treatment of issue suggests an interesting secular argument for the institution of (...) class='Hi'>marriage. (shrink)

It appears that spouses have less reason to hold each other to a norm of monogamy than to reject the norm. The norm of monogamy involves a restriction of spouses' aeeess to two things of value: sex and erotic love. This restriction initially appears unwarranted but can be justified. There is reason for spouses to aeeept the norm of monogamy if their marriage satisfies three conditions. Otherwise, there is reason to permit non-monogamy. Some spouses have reason to accept the (...) norm of monogamy because this will avoid reasonable hurt and prevent diversion of resourees needed to sustain the marriage. Other spouses have reason to permit non-monogamy to allow the spouses access to aspects of a well-rounded life. The choice to be either monogamous or non-monogamous ean also be non-instrumentally valuable if chosen for the right reasons. (shrink)

This paper defends the institution of civil marriage against the objection that it is inconsistent with political liberalism, and so should be either totally abolished or else transformed virtually beyond recognition.

Marriage is one of the most important topics in the education field since life in this world is structured by interaction among families and between families and other social institutions. Dissatisfaction and unsustainability of marriage have led the urgency of premarital education in various countries. The problem is that the spread of virtual reality has made marriage itself to become more complex and experience reinterpretation and reconfiguration, moreover with the emergence of new kind of marriage in (...) the digital era, i.e. virtual marriage. Everybody who has observed, known, or even tried, certainly asks the question, “Could (or: should) I accept virtual marriage?”. This study was aimed to investigate the role of tolerance of ambiguity and illusion of intimacy in online dating in predicting the acceptance of virtual marriage. There were 420 adolescents and young adults (212 males, 208 females; Mage=21.10 years old, SDage=1.459 years; 338 students, 82 employees or entrepreneurs) in the Greater Jakarta, Indonesia, participated in this study. It was found that the acceptance was not predicted by the ambiguity tolerance, but by the illusion of intimacy in online dating. The psychometric issues, substantive discussion, and recommendation are presented at the end of this article. The trend of virtual marriage should not be allowed to roll away, by autopilot, without loaded by strategies in designing an online game as one of the pivotal educational technologies that needs to shape appropriate character and attitude for it. (shrink)

I identify three historical reasons that explain why public opinion shifted from opposing legalizing marriage equality to supporting it. Revisiting these historical reasons matters for marriage equality advocates today because they show that marriage equality advocates should care about how conservative faith traditions define marriage. Marital norms in conservative faith traditions harm queer people’s wellbeing by morally subordinating queer members of that faith tradition and threaten to undo hard-won gains in legal and social domains. Moreover, revisiting (...) these historical reasons deepen the virtuous commitment that marriage equality advocates took on when they endeavored to change legal and social norms around marriage as a way to make queer people better off. (shrink)

The text develops philosophical considerations on the “institutional” dimension of marriage. First of all, the meaning of “institution” is problematized, as it is so much disputed and controversially interpreted today. On the one hand, in fact, it is circumscribed to denote a repressive reality— restraining, delaying, even disciplining—considered necessary and rescuing by some scholars, yet harmful and dangerous by others. On the other hand, accentuating its verbal form, “institution” is also understood in terms of movement, as the novelty that (...) results from the act of instituting, as a discontinuity that opens a field of possibilities. Paul Ricoeur considers institutions as part of the ethical tripod, i.e., of the ways through which human beings can flourish. In the context of these divergent understandings, this paper secondly considers the possibility to speak of marriage as an institution and to take marriage rituals as an example both of rite of passage and aggregation rituals. Bourdieu says that the separation achieved in rituals has a “consecrating” effect. Third, the paper questions whether functional and symbolic changes in marriage and marriage rituals can affect their institutional status and problematize their consequences. (shrink)

Discussion of marriage, in ordinary evaluation and in a large part of family economics, proceeds from an allocative question: what each party holds, what each party supplies, and how holdings and duties are to be arranged between them. This paper states a second question that the first leaves open, namely how the coupling of two parties alters the set of actions, self-descriptions and relations available to each of them over time. The relation between the two questions is treated dialectically. (...) The allocative account is reconstructed as the adequate abstraction of determinate material conditions, principally scarcity, the bearing of marital risk by kin, and the unobservability of future capacity; the generative account is treated as the question that becomes formulable once those conditions shift and once dynamical instruments exist to state it. Five propositions are advanced: coupling changes feasible action sets in ways that conserved-sum representations misdescribe; endowments stand as outputs of a relational trajectory as well as inputs to it; generative change carries no evaluative sign, since expansion, constriction and redirection are generative in the same sense and the mode is defined for each party separately; allocative indicators are verifiable in advance while generative capacity is verifiable in retrospect, which grounds both the rationality of external evaluation by senior kin and the standing risk that generative language serves to defer distributive claims; and distributive guarantees stand among the conditions under which the expansion mode is available. The paper closes with an admissibility condition in constraint form: a generative description of a relation holds for evaluative purposes where the party bearing the cost of the present allocation retains the standing to contest it and a mechanism through which contestation can alter it. The condition places distributive institutions among the enabling conditions of generation, and it blocks the aggregative reading under which one participant's expansion offsets another's constriction. (shrink)

The institution of marriage makes women vulnerable, as does being unmarried in a society that idealises marriage as the norm. It is argued that the use of civil unions as an alternative to legal marriage does not protect women from this vulnerability, and nor do proposed reforms to the institution. The institution of legal marriage therefore must be abolished. A hybrid of Clare Chambers’ piecemeal regulation of relationships and Elizabeth Brake’s minimal marriage, termed the anti-vulnerability (...) approach to relationship regulation (or the AVA) is put forward as the best means to regulate relationships in a way that will protect women from vulnerability. The AVA is implementable in countries where Western marriage is not always the norm, such as South Africa, and is also strongly compatible with LGBTQIA+ relationship styles and arguments against marriage. However, as a piecemeal regulation of relationships cannot be implemented alongside holistic regulation systems, such as legal marriage, legal marriage would need to be abolished to create a system of regulating relationships that will be able to protect women from vulnerability. (shrink)

In the 1706 third edition of her Reflections upon Marriage, Mary Astell alludes to John Locke’s definition of slavery in her descriptions of marriage. She describes the state of married women as being ‘subject to the inconstant, uncertain, unknown, Arbitrary Will of another Man’ (Locke, Two Treatises, II.22). Recent scholars maintain that Astell does not seriously regard marriage as a form of slavery in the Lockean sense. In this paper, I defend the contrary position: I argue that (...) Astell does seriously regard marriage as a form of slavery for women and that she condemns this state of affairs as morally wrong. I also show that, far from criticizing Locke, Astell draws on key passages in his Thoughts concerning Education to urge that women be educated to retain their liberty. (shrink)

Marriage as an institution has been undergoing a shift in perspectives and faces various challenges brought about by pluralism. Subjective accounts often regard marriage as a mere social construct. With this in mind, this paper seeks to recover a deeper understanding of marriage by demonstrating how Natural Law serves as its foundational basis. Following the thought of St. Thomas Aquinas and his twentieth-century follower, the Thomist Jacques Maritain, this paper presents that marriage is not merely a (...) social invention, but a reality rooted in the ontological structure of the human person. As such, marriage is a natural good that fulfills humanity’s inclination toward communion and procreation, thereby contributing not only to the flourishing of individuals but also to the building of the common good of society. (shrink)

Marriage remains one of the most enduring and debated social institutions in human civilization. While its forms vary across cultures, its philosophical and ethical implications transcend time and geography. At its core, marriage is both a personal and collective construct—a union between two individuals and, simultaneously, a social mechanism designed to maintain harmony within the broader human system. Yet, questions arise: Does the concept of marriage violate individuality? Should marriage be considered an absolute concept applicable to (...) all societies? To explore these questions, this paper applies the framework of Angelito Malicse’s Universal Formula, specifically the Universal Law of Balance in Nature. This law asserts that any system—whether mechanical, biological, or social—must remain free from defects or imbalances to function effectively. When applied to marriage, it provides a unique lens for understanding how relationships can either preserve individuality or generate disharmony. (shrink)

The momentum of globalization and universalism, operating through the media, information technology and politics, has steadily diminished the importance of cultural diversity. It has even threatened to erase many of our cultural traditions, or extinguish our diverse experiences of the sacred. Yet the sacred which seems to be lost is often still encased in our cultural objects, stories and religious rituals. This paper will discuss how the memories of the sacred can be both preserved and reawakened. This paper will focus (...) on three scholars who develop alternative approaches to the universal. Franz Rosenzweig saw universal historical progress as oppressive. He believed that the practice of his Jewish religion offered a resistance and a possible correction to the general movement of history. Walter Benjamin saw the forgotten 'ruins' of history encase memories of the sacred and the silenced voices within history. For Benjamin, the role of interpretation is to awaken these hidden memories and voices which are encoded within our objects, images and commodities. This led him to a particular idea of a momentary messianic redemption in relation to greater flow of time. And finally, Jacob Taubes read St. Paul as offering a revolutionary model on how to live one's particular faith within a wider political order. In general, each writer developed an idea of redemption which involves a kind of remembrance of what has been obscured by the more general universal movement of history itself. This is especially relevant for the various religious and cultural communities within Cambodia. The paper will begin and end by discussing the origin story of Cambodia – the marriage between Preah Thong, the Indian prince, and Neag Neak, the Naga princess. I will additionally try to demonstrate that the story and its various reenactments is important because it represents a regenerative process rooted in the eclectic character of South East Asian culture in general. Various forms of memory within the syncretic or eclectic context of Southeast Asia can operate to preserve the sacred in an age of universalization and globalization. It also illustrates how the performance of memory can also offer an antidote to the "trauma" of Cambodia's past. (shrink)

Is Marriage and Having a Family Compulsory in Society? -/- Marriage and family have historically been viewed as essential institutions in many societies, shaping social structures, traditions, and even economies. However, as societies evolve, perspectives on marriage and family have changed. While some still regard them as fundamental aspects of life, others see them as personal choices rather than obligations. The question remains: Is marriage and having a family compulsory in a society? The answer is no, (...) as Individuals today have the freedom to choose their paths based on personal aspirations, financial stability, and societal factors. However, despite this freedom, many young people still face immense pressure to marry, even when they are not yet emotionally or financially prepared. -/- The Traditional View of Marriage and Family -/- In many cultures, marriage has been considered a necessary milestone in life. Historically, it served as a means of ensuring financial security, strengthening social ties, and continuing family lineage. For example, in ancient China, marriage was arranged by families based on social status and economic advantage rather than personal choice. Similarly, in medieval Europe, noble families often arranged marriages to secure alliances and wealth. -/- Even in modern times, some societies still pressure individuals to marry. In India, for example, arranged marriages are still common, with families playing a significant role in selecting a spouse. In some Middle Eastern countries, societal norms strongly encourage marriage, and in some cases, unmarried individuals—especially women—may face social stigma. These cultural perspectives emphasize the importance of marriage not just for personal companionship but as a duty to family and society. -/- Having children is also seen as an obligation in some cultures. In Japan, the declining birth rate has become a concern, leading the government to introduce policies that encourage marriage and childbearing, such as financial incentives and extended parental leave. However, despite these efforts, many young Japanese people choose to remain single or delay marriage due to financial pressures and career aspirations. -/- Pressures That Force Young People into Marriage -/- Despite the increasing acceptance of personal choice in marriage, many young people still feel pressured to marry due to various societal, cultural, and familial factors. -/- 1. Family Expectations and Cultural Norms In many societies, parents and extended family members expect young adults to marry by a certain age. For example, in the Philippines, it is common for relatives to ask young people, “Kailan ka magpapakasal?” (“When will you get married?”) during family gatherings. This social pressure can make individuals feel obligated to marry, even if they are not ready. -/- 2. Religious Beliefs Many religious traditions emphasize marriage as a sacred duty. In some Christian, Muslim, and Hindu communities, staying single for too long may be viewed as undesirable or even sinful. Some religious teachings also discourage premarital relationships, making marriage seem like the only acceptable way to experience companionship and intimacy. -/- 3. Fear of Social Judgment In some cultures, being single for too long is often associated with negative stereotypes. Women, in particular, may be labeled as “old maids” or “leftovers” if they remain unmarried past a certain age. In China, the term “Sheng Nu” (leftover women) is used to describe women over 27 who are still single, putting immense pressure on them to find a husband. Similarly, men who are not married by their 30s may be seen as irresponsible or immature. -/- 4. Economic and Financial Pressures In some societies, marriage is seen as a way to achieve financial security. Young people from economically disadvantaged backgrounds may feel pressured to marry someone who can provide financial stability, even if they are not emotionally prepared for marriage. For example, in some rural parts of Africa and South Asia, early marriages are arranged to provide financial relief to the bride’s family. -/- 5. Peer Pressure Seeing friends and classmates getting married can create a sense of urgency, making individuals feel as though they are “falling behind” in life. In social media-driven cultures, where people frequently post wedding and engagement photos, young adults may feel pressure to conform to the trend, even if they are not ready for marriage. -/- 6. Unplanned Pregnancy In conservative societies, an unplanned pregnancy often leads to marriage due to social expectations and family pressure. In the Philippines, for example, “shotgun weddings” (forced marriages due to pregnancy) are still common, especially among young couples. While this may seem like a solution to social stigma, it often results in marriages that are unstable due to emotional immaturity and financial struggles. -/- Changing Perspectives in Modern Society -/- In contemporary society, marriage and family are increasingly viewed as personal choices rather than obligations. Many individuals prioritize career advancement, personal development, or other life goals. For instance, in Western countries like the United States and Canada, there has been a significant rise in the number of single people who choose to remain unmarried or cohabit without legally formalizing their relationships. Celebrities like Oprah Winfrey, who has remained unmarried despite a long-term relationship, exemplify this shift in societal norms. -/- Additionally, financial stability plays a crucial role in decisions about marriage and children. In urban areas, the rising cost of living, housing, and childcare often discourages young couples from starting a family. For example, in South Korea, the term “Sampo Generation” (meaning “Three-Give-Up Generation”) describes young people who forgo marriage, children, and homeownership due to economic hardships. This phenomenon highlights how financial factors influence personal decisions in modern society. -/- Alternatives to Traditional Family Structures -/- As societies become more accepting of diverse lifestyles, alternative family structures have emerged. Single-parent families, same-sex couples raising children, and individuals choosing to remain child-free are increasingly recognized. For example, in Scandinavian countries like Sweden and Denmark, cohabitation without marriage is common, and legal protections are provided for unmarried couples. -/- Another example is the concept of “chosen families,” where people form deep, supportive relationships outside of biological ties. In LGBTQ+ communities, for instance, individuals often build close family-like relationships with friends who provide emotional and financial support. This demonstrates that love, care, and support do not necessarily require legal marriage or biological parenthood. -/- Conclusion -/- Marriage and family remain significant in many cultures, but they are not compulsory in modern society. While traditional expectations still influence many people’s decisions, growing individual freedom allows people to shape their lives based on personal values, financial realities, and career aspirations. However, young people still experience immense pressure to marry due to family expectations, religious beliefs, social stigma, and economic factors. These pressures often lead individuals into marriage before they are truly ready, sometimes resulting in unhappy or unstable relationships. -/- As society continues to evolve, the acceptance of diverse family structures further highlights that fulfillment and happiness are not dependent on marriage or having children. Instead, individuals should have the right to choose whether to marry or remain single without fear of judgment or pressure. Ultimately, personal happiness and well-being should be prioritized over societal expectations. -/- . (shrink)

Christopher Bennett has argued that state support of conjugal relationships can be founded on the unique contribution such relationships make to the autonomy of their participants by providing them with various forms of recognition and support unavailable elsewhere. I argue that, in part because a long history of interaction between two people who need each other’s validation tends to produce less meaningful responses over time, long-term conjugal relationships are unlikely to provide autonomy-enhancing support to their participants. To the extent that (...) intimate relationships can provide a unique form of reciprocal support, Bennett fails to show that couples have an advantage over multiple-partner arrangements in doing so. (shrink)

Abstract Marriage is widely regarded as both a social institution and a personal commitment. This paper explores the notion that marriage is a “necessary fiction,” examining the term from philosophical, sociological, and personal perspectives. It further integrates this understanding with a universal formula based on natural laws and the law of balance, proposed as a foundation for educational and leadership reforms. The analysis suggests that marriage, while a social construct, serves critical functions when aligned with natural balance (...) but becomes problematic when grounded in ignorance or dogma. Implications for education and policy are discussed, aiming to reduce societal suffering by fostering systems that reflect natural laws. -/- . (shrink)

What is marriage—really? -/- Modern discussions almost invariably begin with regulation: legal definitions, cultural norms, emotional fulfilment, or institutional policy. Marriage Before Law begins somewhere far older and more demanding. It begins with ontology. In this work, S. C. Sayles argues that marriage is not created by law, ceremony, or sentiment, but is a moral reality grounded in creation itself. Before marriage is recognised by church or state, it already exists as a one-flesh union formed through (...) sexual embodiment and charged with covenantal consequence. Law does not create this reality; it responds to it—often imperfectly. -/- Drawing on Scripture, historical theology, and careful moral reasoning, Sayles challenges the modern separation of sex from obligation and marriage from substance. He demonstrates that Scripture consistently treats sexual union as constitutive rather than expressive: it forms bonds, generates responsibility, and creates moral claims whether honoured or violated. From Genesis to the Gospels, from Mosaic law to Pauline teaching, marriage is presented not as an administrative category but as a creational fact that asserts itself even under injustice, disorder, or denial. -/- The book addresses difficult and often avoided questions with clarity and seriousness: – What does it mean to be “one flesh”? – Does sexual union create real obligation outside legal marriage? – How should divorce be understood when covenant has been destroyed in substance? – What authority does the state have—and not have—over marriage? – Why have modern legal and ecclesial systems become increasingly incoherent on sexual ethics? Marriage Before Law does not offer policy prescriptions or sentimental reassurance. It offers a framework—rooted in Scripture and moral reality—by which marriage, sex, divorce, and responsibility can be understood without evasion. It insists that repentance does not deny reality, that recognition is not moral endorsement, and that truth cannot be preserved by abstraction. -/- Written with doctrinal clarity and pastoral sobriety, this book is for readers willing to think carefully about marriage as it actually exists, not merely as it is regulated or imagined. It is a work for theologians, pastors, students of Scripture, and thoughtful readers concerned with truth rather than convenience. -/- Marriage stands before law. This book explains why. (shrink)

Kant was engaged in a lifelong struggle to achieve what he calls in the 1756 Physical Monadology (PM) a “marriage” of metaphysics and geometry (1:475). On one hand, this involved showing that metaphysics and geometry are complementary, despite the seemingly irreconcilable conflicts between these disciplines and between their respective advocates, the Leibnizian-Wolffians and the Newtonians. On the other hand, this involved defining the terms of their union, which meant among other things, articulating their respective roles in grounding Newtonian natural (...) science. In this paper, consider how Kant’s project of marrying metaphysics and geometry evolves from the pre-Critical to the Critical period and how key discussions in the Prolegomena are related to the lifelong marriage project. (shrink)

The Progressive favors extending the legal institution of marriage so as to include same-sex unions along with heterosexual ones. The Traditionalist opposes such an extension, preferring to retain the legal institution of marriage in its present form. I argue that the Progressive ought to broaden her position, endorsing instead the Liberal case for extending the current institution so as to include polygamous unions as well—for any consideration favoring Progressivism over Traditionalism likewise favors Liberalism over Progressivism. Progressives inclined to (...) resist Liberalism are invited to consider an alternative position: the Libertarian stance that favors instead the ‘disestablishment’ of marriage. (shrink)

Traditional paradigm on marriage equality focused on a humanitarian appeal and was set as a path dependency model on marriage equality for the suppressed regions. However, such gender based focus has largely neglected the multilateral movements underlying the macro- political-economic structures that shaped law as a power political means. Consequentially, LGBTQI existence became marginalized from the public consciousness with structural realist state hierarchies that further undermines the fundamental freedoms of the LGBTQI popula- tion. This makes the question on (...) LGBTQI equal marriage from a simple humanitarian value based discourse to a macro-political-economy question. The article adopts the Maslow’s hier- archy of needs as the analytical framework on the developing country as the People’s Republic of China (PRC) in relation to multilateralism and global economy on the necessity to legalize LGBTQI marriage. (shrink)

“I am only what I make myself to be”, Fichte tells us. In this paper, I outline Fichte’s views on sex, marriage and gender, with two aims. Firstly, to elucidate an aspect of his moral theory which has received little attention, and secondly to argue that Fichte’s distinctive stance on selfhood, freedom, and normativity lead to a revisionary account of gender expression and identity, where people can freely carve out their own identity, irrespective of “nature”. In this paper, I (...) therefore outline Fichte’s own views, highlighting what I see as a tension in the texts between essentialism and antiessentialism about gender, before reconstructing a neo-Fichtean view which foregrounds the anti-essentialist aspect. (shrink)

In this contribution, I advocate diminishing the vision of marriage as an isolated and perfectly free choice between two individuals in love, in order to unseat the extent to which students resist the view that marriage is, among other things, a social contract. I summarize views of Immanuel Kant and Claudia Card, then describe my class presentation of the social significance of marriage. I conclude that students at an individualistic and self-creating point in their lives can be (...) under-appreciative of what their public avowals mean to others, and marriage, in one sense, is indeed public. (shrink)

The human attempts to access, measure and organize physical phenomena have led to a manifold construction of mathematical and physical spaces. We will survey the evolution of geometries from Euclid to the Algebraic Geometry of the 20th century. The role of Persian/Arabic Algebra in this transition and its Western symbolic development is emphasized. In this relation, we will also discuss changes in the ontological attitudes toward mathematics and its applications. Historically, the encounter of geometric and algebraic perspectives enriched the mathematical (...) practices and their foundations. Yet, the collapse of Euclidean certitudes, of over 2300 years, and the crisis in the mathematical analysis of the 19th century, led to the exclusion of “geometric judgments” from the foundations of Mathematics. After the success and the limits of the logico-formal analysis, it is necessary to broaden our foundational tools and re-examine the interactions with natural sciences. In particular, the way the geometric and algebraic approaches organize knowledge is analyzed as a cross-disciplinary and cross-cultural issue and will be examined in Mathematical Physics and Biology. We finally discuss how the current notions of mathematical (phase) “space” should be revisited for the purposes of life sciences. (shrink)

A response to James S. Spiegel's article in THINK 43 in which he argues that same-sex marriage is unjust.

However liberalism is best understood, liberals typically seek to defend a wide range of liberty. Since same-sex marriage [henceforth: SSM] prohibitions limit the liberty of citizens, there is at least some reason to suppose that they are inconsistent with liberal commitments. But some have argued that it is the recognition of SSM—not its prohibition—that conflicts with liberalism’s commitments. I refer to the thesis that recognition of SSM is illiberal as “The Charge.” As a sympathetic liberal, I take The Charge (...) seriously enough to consider and ultimately reject it. Ultimately, I contend that The Charge is simply misguided and that arguments for it either fail to find support in some liberal principle or else find support from some illiberal principle. (shrink)

Many theorists have recently observed that the response to the same-sex marriage controversy most congruent with basic liberal principles is neither the retention of the institution of marriage in its present form, nor its extension so as to include same-sex unions along with heterosexual ones, but rather the ‘dis-establishment’ of marriage. Less commonly observed, however, is the fact that there are two competing models for how the state might effect a regime of disestablished marriage. On the (...) one hand, there is a ‘deflationary’ approach, on which the state ceases to confer marital status, but does remain in the status-conferring business. On this approach, the state would still bestow a certain ‘thinner’, more ‘neutral’ legal status – as it does when it creates civil unions, for instance. Call this the ‘Status Model’ of disestablished marriage. On the other hand, there is an ‘eliminativist’ approach, on which the state ceases to confer any sort of status at all – not even the thin or neutral status of ‘civilly-unioned’. There simply are no registered domestic partnerships. What there is, is contract law, and individuals entering into contracts for life-partnership – contractual arrangements which might assume any of a wide variety of forms. Call this the ‘Contract Model’ of disestablished marriage. In this paper, I explore the merits of these competing models. After briefly discussing what it means to speak of ‘disestablishing marriage’, and examining the case for disestablishment, I proceed to consider the advantages and disadvantages of each model. My tentative conclusion is that the Contract Model is the one that best instantiates cardinal liberal virtues. (shrink)

Modern debates about early marriage in Islamic history frequently collapse into moral anachronism, projecting contemporary psychological, legal, and institutional categories onto a premodern world structured by radically different conditions. This article develops a framework of contextual moral realism to explain why early adolescent marriage was morally intelligible—and often perceived as protective—in seventh-century Arabia, while being morally impermissible under modern conditions. Drawing on anthropology, moral philosophy, Islamic legal theory, historical demography, and comparative civilizational analysis, the study reconstructs the social (...) ecology that shaped premodern moral reasoning: extended kinship households, absence of state protection, high mortality, early economic integration, and collective guardianship. The article argues that Islamic law neither invented nor idealized early marriage, nor grounded its permissibility in individual autonomy or self-authorship. Rather, it regulated an inherited practice in accordance with enduring moral aims internal to the Sharīʿa—protection of the vulnerable, harm minimization, preservation of bodily integrity and lineage, and maintenance of social stability—applied within severe structural constraints. By tracing consistent patterns across domains such as marriage, slavery reform, and political crisis management, the study shows that Prophetic ethics exhibit remarkable coherence under non-ideal conditions. When modern institutions transform vulnerability, knowledge, and responsibility, the same Islamic moral principles require different applications. The resulting shift represents continuity of moral purpose rather than ethical contradiction, and does not depend on liberal conceptions of autonomy as the basis of moral judgment. (shrink)

Epicurus strongly discouraged sex, marriage, and the rearing of children. This paper looks at some of the primary evidence for these claims, clears up a translation of one passage, and emends another passage. (The emendation has been accepted into Dorandi's new edition of Diogenes Laertius).

The PDF uploaded is ENTIRELY different from the two links provided. Please download the PDF and then read the given links. This has NOTHING to do with philosophy or literature. This is being put up here in the memories of Bro. Cal Whiting cfc and Fr. Larry Abello SJ. This is more of a record for those interested. The full names of the Christian Brother from Australia is Br Robert Cataldus Whiting who is also mentioned among notable Christian Brothers in (...) the Christian Brothers' Wikipedia page. Further, Fr. Abello's full name was Fr. Lawrence Abello Ph.D. I have written about both of them in Indian Catholic Matters. This has been published in The Herald. The links added are to Indian Catholic Matters. The PDF uploaded is entirely different. Then read the first link on the Church's position on the indissolubility of marriage. (shrink)

The classification of a state of affairs under a legal category can be considered as a kind of con- densed decision that can be made explicit, analyzed, and assessed us- ing argumentation schemes. In this paper, the controversial conflict of opinions concerning the nature of “marriage” in Obergefell v. Hodges is analyzed pointing out the dialecti- cal strategies used for addressing the interpretive doubts. The dispute about the same-sex couples’ right to marry hides a much deeper disa- greement not (...) only about what mar- riage is, but more importantly about the dialectical rules for defining it. (shrink)

This paper investigated Efik marriage rites from a gender perspective. Marriage in Africa is a union between a man and a woman (monogamy) or mainly between a man and women (polygyny), or between a woman and men (polyandry), though this is very rare. In some cases it may be serial polygyny or polyandry, i.e. the case of marrying more than one wife or husband, but always after divorce. Marriage just like other institutions in Africa has rites of (...) passage in which those who intend to enter into it must pass through. Every culture has a sense of peculiarity as to the way in which it approaches this matter. The Efik people are not an exception to this. The question that may be asked is, how gender-balanced are these rites? The Efik people claim to have gender equality, but is this reflected in her marriage rites? Rites are symbolisms of what the actual institution which those rites represent. It is in the light of this that this paper using gender theory critically looked at the Efik traditional marriage rites from gender perspective. The paper realized that, among the Efik people’s traditional marriage rites, there is gender imbalance. It proffers ways of having gender balance in Efik traditional marriage rites. Apart from adding a voice to the cry for gender equality and equity, it provides scholarship a resource material needed for Efik ethnographic study. (shrink)

This paper replies to two arguments against marriage presented by Dan Moller (Philosophy 78, 2003: 79–91). One of Moller's arguments examines several ways in which the marriage promise could be explained, and shows that none of them is viable. The other argument suggests that marriage may not be a worthwhile enterprise since marriages frequently fail, in that they become loveless or end up in divorce. I argue that the marriage promise can be explained in a way (...) unconsidered by Moller, which renders the promise viable; and that notwithstanding the failure of many marriages, it still is, for some people, a worthwhile enterprise. (shrink)

This paper develops a constructive theological–philosophical account of marriage grounded in ontology rather than legal formalism. Building on the arguments advanced in Marriage Before Law: Sex, Covenant, and Moral Reality by S. C. Sayles, the paper contends that marriage is a moral reality constituted by sexual union and covenantal obligation prior to, and independent of, civil recognition. Against modern assumptions that reduce marriage to a legal–emotional contract, the study argues that Scripture, pre modern law, and the (...) Christian moral imagination consistently treat sexual union as constitutive rather than merely expressive. The paper proceeds by establishing marriage’s creational ontology through close engagement with Genesis 1–2 and Christ’s appeal to creation in the Gospels; examining biblical case law and narrative (especially Genesis 29 and 1 Corinthians 6); analysing the linguistic identity of husband and wife in Hebrew and Greek; and tracing the historical shift by which sex was rendered recreational and marriage procedural. The implications for divorce, polygyny, civil authority, and pastoral ethics are then explored. The conclusion proposes a framework in which law recognises rather than defines marriage, repentance addresses sin without denying ontological reality, and Christian moral reasoning regains coherence by refusing to evacuate obligation from embodied union. ________________________________________ . (shrink)

I compare Rosamond’s relationship with her husband in Middlemarch with Rosamond’s marital relationship in L.A.G. Strong’s short story “The Seal.” I interpret the latter fiction as addressing the unpleasant question: what sort of decent man can suppress Rosamond?

Taking an 1893 exchange between Charles S. Peirce and Open Court editor Paul Carus as its point of departure, the paper explores the relation between religion and science while making the case that the attitude that scientists have to their subject is akin to a religious devotion. In this way it is argued that a reconciliation between science and religion cannot be confined to religion blindly accepting the results from science, but that such a reconciliation is possible only when both (...) (re)connect with what truly inspires them, the experience of reverent wonder about the world within which they find themselves. (shrink)

Licentiate (STL) Thesis of 2022. This study restores the Thomistic understanding of the essence of marriage, shared between natural and sacramental marriage. First, it reviews categorical real relations before summarizing the Scriptural witness to marriage as a form of conjoined relation. Then, marriage as a mutual real relation is presented and expanded upon, following the works Saint Thomas Aquinas.

Whatever may be said about contemporary feminists’ evaluation of Descartes’ role in the history of feminism, Mary Astell herself believed that Descartes’ philosophy held tremendous promise for women. His urging all people to eschew the tyranny of custom and authority in order to uncover the knowledge that could be found in each one of our unsexed souls potentially offered women a great deal of intellectual and personal freedom and power. Certainly Astell often read Descartes in this way, and Astell herself (...) has been interpreted as a feminist – indeed, as the first English feminist. But a close look at Astell’s and Descartes’ theories of reason, and the role of authority in knowledge formation as well as in their philosophies of education, show that there are subtle yet crucial divergences in their thought – divergences which force us to temper our evaluation of Astell as a feminist. My first task is to evaluate Astell’s views on custom and authority in knowledge formation and education by comparing her ideas with those of Descartes. While it is true that Astell seems to share Descartes’ wariness of custom and authority, a careful reading of her work shows that the wariness extends only as far as the tyranny of custom over individual intellectual development. It does not extend to a wariness about social and institutional customs and authority (including, perhaps most crucially, the institution of marriage as we see in her Reflection on Marriage). The reason for this is that Astell’s driving goal is to help women to come to know God’s plan for women – both in their roles as human and in their roles as women. According to Astell, while it is true that, as individuals, women must develop their rational capacities to the fullest in order to honor God and his plan for women as human, as members of social institutions, including the institution of marriage, women must subordinate themselves to men, including their husbands, in this case so as to honor God and his plan for women as women. Once we understand the theological underpinnings of her equivocal reaction to authority and custom, we can see that Astell may be considered a feminist in a very tempered way. My second task is to use these initial conclusions to re-read her proposal for single-sexed education that we find in A Serious Proposal to the Ladies. It is true that Astell encourages women to join single-sexed educational institutions for the unique and empowering friendships that women can develop in such institutions. Still, my argument continues, the development of such friendships is not entirely an end in itself. Rather, Astell encourages women to develop such friendships such that they can re-enter the broader world armed with the tools that will help them endure burdensome features of the lives that await them in the world, including their lives as subordinated wives –burdens that Astell does not, in principle, challenge. (shrink)

This study was to examine inter-cultural marriages in terms of the challenges and coping strategies in Ini local government area of Akwa Ibom state, Nigeria. The study adopted survey research design. The area of the study was Ini local government area, Akwa Ibom State. The population of one thousand, two hundred and fifty-four couples were into inter-cultural marriages in Ini L.G.A. Purposive random sampling technique was used in selecting the married couples that was used for the respondents. The instrument for (...) data collection was structured questionnaire which was validated by three expects. The sample size was 300. The major findings includes 10 prospects of inter-cultural marriage which were heightened cultural awareness and empathy, people are more tolerant in inter-cultural marriages than others, children of inter-cultural marriages feel affinity from the cultures of both parents among others with mean ranged from 3.06 to 3.50 and standard deviations ranged from 0.48 to 1.06. Ten challenges of inter-cultural marriages were identified with mean ranged from 3.07 to 3.53 while the standard deviations ranged from 0.50 to 0.94. 10 coping strategies of inter-cultural marriage were identified. This study recommends that couples who intend to go into intercultural marriages must understand clearly from the start what their companions will bring to the marriage, habits and attitudes learned from his/her family and friends and be carefully discussed before marriage and after marriage. (shrink)

Abstract -/- Marriage is one of the most enduring human institutions, transcending cultures, religions, and time. Yet, its core purpose is interpreted differently depending on the lens through which it is viewed—philosophical, religious, scientific, psychological, sociological, or legal. This essay explores the multifaceted purpose of marriage by synthesizing perspectives from diverse domains, demonstrating that marriage serves both deeply personal and broadly social functions. -/- .