101 Things/Kinks in Fiction Meme Part 3
I broke a tooth yesterday and went to the dentist straight away this morning. Really annoyed, because the dentist scolded me for not getting that tooth fixed since 2012. I told him that I went to the dentist between 2012 and now and while she fixed other problems she didn't say anything about that particular tooth! Anyway. Root canal part one for me and then part two coming soon. Meh.
I applied for a passport today and they told me I should bring my old passport when I pick up the new one. Errrr. yeah... The old one expired in 2004... I doubt that I sill have it. :(
This posting daily thing is really fun. I may not have much to say, but I enjoy it. On we go with the list.
21. Shirtsleeves pushed up past the elbows.
Especially if it's a crisp, white Oxford. Ratty, plaid workshirts are also good.
22. Silly, giggly sex. ✔
I adore a couple that makes each other crack up during sex and get distracted and sidetracked. Particularly if sex isn't treated like a project that needs to be seen through from A to B. I also love dry, coherent banter during sex, especially when it turns incoherent after a while.
23. Almost getting caught. Or getting caught.
Like, literally, seconds left to finish and get dressed before someone walks in. And sometimes not making it. This also involves loud sex without knowing that someone else can hear.
24. Wake up In the middle of the night and have sex (then go back to sleep).
I like reading sleepy sex and this is a step above morning sex.
25. Safewords.
I once spend an entire afternoon researching english football clubs, because I needed a safeword for a sex scene that meant something to the character. Unfortunately, I never used the scene... but I love it when the author uses a safeword for the characters that has meaning for them.
26. Competent punctuation.
Oxford commas, correct use of space (like not putting a space in front of punctuation marks) restraint when using punctuation marks (one ! is enough!). I have to admit, I am struggling a bit with this one, because I mix up German, AE and BE punctuation...
27. Sex games.
Who comes first loses. Sex truth or dare. Games like that. So much fun!
28. Casual sex. ✔
Not so much meaningless sex, but sex that isn't the most epic thing every time it happens. I love to read about long-term couples where sex isn't the most life changing experience EVERY TIME but something normal, squeezed in between work, dropping the kids off at football and shopping for groceries.
29. Sex in a really dirty place.
Like a festival toilet. The alley behind an itty bitty pub where the ceiling drips with humidity, near the bins. (Lol, that was very specific). Anywhere in Dhaka, Bangladesh, apparently the dirtiest city in the world.
30. Well dressed characters.
Particularly well dressed men who can put an outfit together without help. I also love not-so-well dressed characters interacting with well dressed characters, especially when they are in a relationship. I like it when the not so well dressed character feels self-conscious about what they look like next to their well dressed partner and the well dressed partner not caring at all or the well dressed partner being embarrassed to be seen in public with the not so well dressed partner.
I also love to read about women who just cannot dress well. Or think they can't because of their body type.
I applied for a passport today and they told me I should bring my old passport when I pick up the new one. Errrr. yeah... The old one expired in 2004... I doubt that I sill have it. :(
This posting daily thing is really fun. I may not have much to say, but I enjoy it. On we go with the list.
21. Shirtsleeves pushed up past the elbows.
Especially if it's a crisp, white Oxford. Ratty, plaid workshirts are also good.
22. Silly, giggly sex. ✔
I adore a couple that makes each other crack up during sex and get distracted and sidetracked. Particularly if sex isn't treated like a project that needs to be seen through from A to B. I also love dry, coherent banter during sex, especially when it turns incoherent after a while.
23. Almost getting caught. Or getting caught.
Like, literally, seconds left to finish and get dressed before someone walks in. And sometimes not making it. This also involves loud sex without knowing that someone else can hear.
24. Wake up In the middle of the night and have sex (then go back to sleep).
I like reading sleepy sex and this is a step above morning sex.
25. Safewords.
I once spend an entire afternoon researching english football clubs, because I needed a safeword for a sex scene that meant something to the character. Unfortunately, I never used the scene... but I love it when the author uses a safeword for the characters that has meaning for them.
26. Competent punctuation.
Oxford commas, correct use of space (like not putting a space in front of punctuation marks) restraint when using punctuation marks (one ! is enough!). I have to admit, I am struggling a bit with this one, because I mix up German, AE and BE punctuation...
27. Sex games.
Who comes first loses. Sex truth or dare. Games like that. So much fun!
28. Casual sex. ✔
Not so much meaningless sex, but sex that isn't the most epic thing every time it happens. I love to read about long-term couples where sex isn't the most life changing experience EVERY TIME but something normal, squeezed in between work, dropping the kids off at football and shopping for groceries.
29. Sex in a really dirty place.
Like a festival toilet. The alley behind an itty bitty pub where the ceiling drips with humidity, near the bins. (Lol, that was very specific). Anywhere in Dhaka, Bangladesh, apparently the dirtiest city in the world.
30. Well dressed characters.
Particularly well dressed men who can put an outfit together without help. I also love not-so-well dressed characters interacting with well dressed characters, especially when they are in a relationship. I like it when the not so well dressed character feels self-conscious about what they look like next to their well dressed partner and the well dressed partner not caring at all or the well dressed partner being embarrassed to be seen in public with the not so well dressed partner.
I also love to read about women who just cannot dress well. Or think they can't because of their body type.