There’s a strange paradox in tech: someone can be a solid developer, lead projects, write clean code, and still fail interview after interview.
Not once, but over and over again.
And we’re not talking about juniors. I’ve seen senior engineers freeze mid-sentence, forget terminology, or just walk away feeling like they bombed, even though they knew the answers.
If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. I’ve worked with developers for years: hiring them, preparing them, evaluating them. And here’s the truth: if you’re struggling with interviews, it doesn’t mean you're unqualified. It means the format is broken.
Why interviews aren't just about “testing your skills”
In theory, a technical interview checks if you know your stuff.
In reality, it’s a pressure cooker.
Here’s what it throws at you:
- limited time
- unfamiliar phrasing of questions
- zero feedback from the interviewer
- the need to think, speak, and defend your answers out loud, in real time
The result?
You’re expected to be more articulate than in any Slack thread, and faster than on any real-life project. And if you crack under pressure, it might cost you the job, even if you're technically the strongest candidate.
So, what can you actually do?
1. Prepare with your voice, not just your brain
Reading theory is great. Solving problems is useful. But if you don’t say your answers out loud, your brain will betray you.
Practice speaking, even into a voice recorder. You’ll hear your weak points instantly.
2. Simulate pressure
Set a timer. Ask a friend to throw questions at you. Or use a mock interview simulator that recreates the real experience. I’ve actually built one myself, called Smart Interviewer. It’s voice-based, feedback-driven, and designed for developers like us.
3. Reflect on failed interviews
Don’t just move on. Try to reconstruct them. What did they ask? Where did you hesitate? What could you have said better?
It’s uncomfortable, but that’s where the learning happens.
One last thing: interviewing is a skill
And like any skill, it can be improved. With practice, with feedback, with the right tools.
Failing an interview doesn’t define you as a developer.
It just means you didn’t have enough reps yet.
So give yourself permission to treat interviews not as judgment, but as training.
And if you're looking for a realistic way to practice, feel free to check my profile.
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