Here's a lovely thing
This one has self destructive habits
Various drugs (though seldom any longer), body mutilation/modification, social gatherings
Things that in the end may very well result in a closed casket even if I die of old age
I enjoy it and see no reason not to indulge at every opertunity
There may be a lass in my imediate future who has been traumatized by these very things
We all see where this is going