197 pages ; 22 cm

The myths that permeate the sexual relationship in most marriages today can cause tremendous frustrations. The purpose of this book is to help a husband and a wife unravel these sexual myths together. This will work best if the husband and wife read aloud one chapter at a sitting and then take time for discussion. The sexual relationship is not a "get" experience; it's a "share" experience. However, before this sexual experience can be shared, the myths that interfere with it must be dealt with. The quest for each couple is to get past having sex and move on to making love. This book was written as a road map for that journey. - Introduction

Includes bibliographical references (pages 195-196)

Introduction -- Part one : Your expectations. My expectations went out to lunch -- Where do my expectations come from? -- Myth : what you see is what you get -- Myth : my spouse responds the same way I do -- Myth : foreplay occurs just before intercourse -- Myth : I can't respond to nothing -- Myth : good sex is when you fill my wish list -- Myth : good-bye passion, good-bye love -- Myth : couples are born compatible -- Part two : Complications to lovemaking. Love in the time of children -- Affairs we never knew we were having -- The intimacy earthquake -- When she's not interested -- When he's not interested -- Part three : Having sex or making love. Learning to love -- Make it an event -- Start your own affair at home

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