My local Linux machine has coloured terminal output like this;

When I SSH to a pfSense/BSD box it changes the colours like this;

Even when I SSH from to a machine that doesn't have a coloured local terminal output, and SSH from there to this pfSense/FreeBSD box it enables coloured output, and starts producing unwanted coloured output/
Is there something I can change locally so that when I SSH to the pfSense box from either my local machine or via an intermediary machine, my client will ignore the remote colour settings. Ideally I want to stay in black and white, two tone standard background and text colour only?
TERM=xterm-mono ssh user@hostto get that setting in the remote environment.