comparisons are odious

It is unhelpful, unfair, or misleading to draw comparisons between people or things, especially when done flippantly or inappropriately. Everyone keeps comparing the new streaming service to traditional cable television, but frankly, comparisons are odious. A: "How would you compare Sarah's current boyfriend with her last?" B: "Comparisons are odious, dear. Let's not go down that road." I have always felt that comparisons are odious, especially when it comes to my kids and their lives.

To draw an analogy is offensive; one cannot compare apples and oranges fairly. This term was already so well known in Shakespeare’s time that he was able to make a pun—more accurately a malapropism—on it and be sure it would be perfectly understood (“Comparisons are odorous,” says Dogberry in Much Ado about Nothing, 3.5). The earliest reference recorded is from about 1430, and there are equivalents in French, Italian, and numerous other languages.